i love beer,doin 2 jobs to pay child support,never found abeautiful woman to marry
2006-06-21 17:19:41 · 22 answers · asked by tired of being alone 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
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2006-06-21 17:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by der_grosse_e 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you think you're a bad person? You work hard to support your child(s), that says you love and care about your child and respect your ex-wife or girlfriend enough to maintain a decent relationship for the sake of of our kid. That says you have integrity, You say you haven't found a beautiful woman to marry; who are you trying to please or impress there? Beautiful comes in many forms and appearance says nothing about her heart or yours. Happiness is what you should seek, So you like beer and you think that's bad; well I guess that makes me and most oif the officer's I know and my personal friends bad too. Stop worrying about how you feel people might see you, I don't believe for a minute that you really believe your a bad guy. You know enough people in similar situations who aren't even trying. Thats all you can do, is try and do your best. Tough as the money of child support may seem, and I know, concentrate on the quality time you can have with your child and really learn how to to do things that you enjoyed as a kid that will bond you. It's much more valuable than any child support you have to pay, Look for a woman who you can stand to look at if that bothers you, and develop a friendship with her and not just a sexual partner. It will make any sexual relationship much more rewarding and give you someone to lean on when times feel rough. And let her have full access to you as well. A beautiful body is a natural desire for the sexual pleasure of man, but don't limit your search to a small group. I'm no diferant from you, I worked extra jobs to pay child support and to have spending money for quality time with my son, and I'd love a beautiful, sexy woman to boost my esteem and sexual desires too. I felt like crap when I was seriously jurt on duty and couldn't pay support for a while, but I resumed asap and know I was trying. Thats all you can do bud. I'd say you're just the opposite; a very good guy.
2006-06-22 02:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by DallasBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You work two jobs to pay child support when a large number of guy's spend more time and effort looking for "loop" holes so they don't have to pay and then waste their time and money plus the kids hurt from their actions or lack of action.
2. Loving beer is NOT a crime.
3. Never been married.... smart - provided you have issues with commitment. Willing to wait it out for a looker... even smarter.
SO sum it up. Your a Helluva Guy ... at least that's what Bush would say. Not that being acknowledge by Bush is a compliment.
2006-06-22 00:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a hero in my eyes. So many of my single friends who have children are having to go to court to get child support from the FATHER. I don't know what's up with that....
The beer should be 86ed from your life though---that is considering the way you sound so bummed.
And lastly, I hope you are looking for inner beauty in a woman. The outer beauty is no guarantee for a great personality.
2006-06-22 02:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Sierra Sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not bad, however, why is the only important thing about a woman how beautiful she is. Why didn't you say I have never found a truly loving woman to marry? Women are more then just their looks.
2006-06-28 09:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not a bad person you just traded happiness. You take care of your children and that is what is really matters. the relationship will come in time. You may even luck up and find a woman that likes beer to.
2006-06-22 00:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by zaliegha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Tired, you are a FINE person. You're responsible enough and honest enough to pay child support by working TWO jobs. Every day you're closer to finding that wonderful, beautiful woman who will see all the goodness you don't even see in yourself and, before you know it, you'll be happily married.
Keep up the great work, and soon you'll have to change your on-line name to Tired, but happily hitched! God bless you.
2006-06-22 00:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Serena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is definitely a good quality (responsiblity), but I dont know the your specifics of your situation like whether or not your working interfers with seeing them, or your drinking affects the probably slight encounters u do have with them, but keep paying child support and if your childrens mother doesnt have a person in her life shoot for the moon and if that doesnt work women they will come, u dont wait for one though show inititive and go and get one. good luck I hope this helps
2006-06-22 00:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Howard T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are paying child support that's a plus. Beer might not be the beverage of choice with children.and don't look for beautiful women. Look for one that will accept your children and have you work only one job.
2006-06-22 01:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad person, just a stupid one. First, If you have children, you must stop drinking and drugs, and start to live by example. Second, Beautiful women are everywhere, you just can't see them because you are using your eyes. To find the most beautiful women, you must look without using your eyes. The eyes blind a man to the true beauty of a woman.
2006-06-22 00:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by uncleal_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out my 360 page. IM me sometime.
You might want to switch to loving a beautiful woman and calm your lust to like of beer. Might help- just a thought.
2006-06-22 00:29:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋