I am a little sister. My older sister and I are three years apart and I always wanted to hang out with her when I was little because I thought she was the coolest thing since pre-sliced bread. She pushed me away, and we never really recovered.
Now I'm 17 and she's almost 20 and it's too late to try to become friends in youth. It's kind of lonely when you have a sibling but you can't talk to them. Sure, little sisters can be pests, but spend some time with her or you'll regret it.
2006-06-21 17:04:32
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answered by Mandi 6
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Please! I'm the youngest and let me tell you, the oldest, my sister, can annoy that crap out of me! If your sister is still young, she'll eventually grow out of it. Believe me, I think my sister, sometimes, is very immature and could have made better decisions in life. So, be a great role model because unless you don't have younger siblings that's your job.
Just wanted to add, even though I don't believe my sister was a positive role model, she was, however, still a role model. I learned so much from her . . . from her mistakes.
Think about this - do you want your little sister to idealize you and want to be just like you because you're such a positive role model OR do you want your little sister to want to grow up and do everything in her power to not be anything like you so she will never let herself make the same life decisions you made because in her eyes they were mistakes?
2006-06-21 17:07:12
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answered by Anonymous
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well, from what i've learned from my little sister, (we are 5 years apart) now that i'm 24 and shes 19, what i can see, she really just wants to be like me. i'm the best role model she has. i really hated being an example when i was young, but thats all i was for her.
i started charging her admission to get into my room.
and then when i got sick of her, even though i was getting money from her coming into my room, i upped my price from a nominal 25 cents, to 26 cents, and the policy was "no pennies, cash only"
i didnt see alot of her after that. i'd walk by her room and she'd be digging around in what was in her piggy bank swearing there was some way to make it happen, she just knew she could make 26 cents, and no pennies. she thought all she had to do was keep counting with dimes and pennies and nickles.
it kept her busy for about 2 weeks. and then my mother saw what she was doing, and told her there was no way, and they both got mad at me.
that is when i told them both to leave me alone.
later i realized she wasnt going to leave me alone, and that part of having a younger sister is helping her grow up. it just is. theres nothing you, or i, or anybody could do about it.
set up a play time with her. theres a play time every day. when its not play time, you have things to do, and its not her turn, and she needs to understand that. she can, and she will, with your determination.
2006-06-21 17:08:30
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answered by ASLotaku 5
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I think that is just a part of the little sister job. Actually, it is becuase they admire you and want to do everything that you are doing. ( I know it doesn't seem that way; but it is true you are thier "big sis" and that makes you cool to them.) In a few years they will mature, realize that you are still cool but they don't have to do everything you do and stop being so annoying.
2006-06-21 17:06:58
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answered by southerngirl0525 2
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You are so lucky to have an annoying sister. She wants to be just like you and wants your attention, that's why she is annoying. Remember, she too will grow up one day and look back on how you treated her. She will likewise treat you the same. Show her love and what she can be in life and the rewards are ten fold.
2006-06-21 17:04:52
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answered by Inquisit 2
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You should be proud that someone wants to be your shadow. A little sister is going to look up to her big sis because she thinks you're cool. To her you are better than mom and dad. Be a good influence she looks up to you don't try to get rid of her. Teach her and you'll be amazed at the best friend you may acquire without even expecting it.
2006-06-21 17:05:14
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answered by gabby 2
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That is one of their jobs and they like to annoy the other siblings. It's in their job description, I remember being the little sister. But I am not as annoying anymore
2006-06-21 17:03:27
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answered by It's my life 2
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they constantly say mockery is the sincerest variety of flattery. in case you're aloud to fasten your door, then LOCK YOUR DOOR your little sister loves you becuase you're her massive sister. and older siblings lead by making use of occasion. Be well mannered and tell her to no longer take stuff out of your room. in case you yell at her she will proceed becuase you pay interest. you additionally can attempt putting your stuff in a distinctive place or up greater. tell your mothers and fathers that she is bothering you, yet once you do dont walk in with an suggestions-set or sound annoyed becuase they are extra keen to offer you what you like in case you're mature approximately it. My siter used to compy me each and all of the time. Make it a game and say some thing stupid and he or she will repeat it. she will quickly comprehend this is your guy or woman particular game and he or she ought to end ultimately, it truly works each and all of the time. sometimes fiddling along with her will do the trick, play tag or tornado even whether it truly is basically for 20 minuets and later she will cope with you extra like a chum and not difficulty you once you dont decide to. pull her aside and communicate over along with her. you ought to be respectful so as which you your mothers and fathers wont think of you're being a bully. you ought to communicate over along with her in a peaceful tone so as that she will comprehend which you're no longer fooling around. once you communicate over along with her, you ought to talk to her as an equivalent and not your little sister with the aid of fact i wager each and every person can remeber a time while they have been little and that they hated while each and every person taken care of them like a sprint one.
2016-10-31 06:47:12
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answered by ? 4
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I'm a little sister and it's because I love my sister and want to be like her cause she's so cool to me. I figure if I bother her enough she will hang with me just to get me off her back
2006-06-21 17:07:32
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answered by smelzmelz 4
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Because older sisters are so much fun to watch get mad!! LOL They love to get a reaction from you! Either learn to ignore it, or better yet, suggest to do something fun with her.
2006-06-21 17:04:57
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answered by clayladyinred 2
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