i am pregnant?

Question

im pregnant by my xboyfriend and he has a girl everysince we broke up we still messed around and it going on 3 years his girlfriend know me because im a friend of the family and his sister is my bestfriend but his girl know that we dated befour and she also we have had a arrugment befour what should i do

Answer 1

well its obvious tell him and his girl cos a baby is a very serious situation and you both have to make a choice!!!! this baby needs lots of love and attention, are you able to afford to have a baby you do realise that babies need to eat, sleep and be changed right???? how old are you??? im guessing that if your on her asking for this type of advice your TOOOO YOUNG!!!! and in future i think it would be wise for you to keep your legs closed!!

Answer 2

I hope you have a responsible person (mom or dad) that you can talk to that can help you make some very important decision that can effect you the rest of your life. It should be all about you right now. You and your unborn child. See a doctor so that you can stay healthy for both of your sakes. Decide if you want to continue with the pregnacy or not. It may be hard for you to do but by focusing on yourslef and making sure you are making good choices is the very best bet for now. I wouldnt worry about the guy at all for now. It doesnt appear that hes into you,

Answer 3

I think you should talk to him, and ask him what he thinks, more then likely you will get the true answer from him. To tell youif he doesn't stick around, I guess he didn't really love you and was looking for the action. I'm sorry but it is the truth, I wish you luck on this...

I also would add if you feel like you are too young. I would suggest adoption, cause it is really hard to keep a baby single and young. Give the baby the best it can, a mother and a father.

Best of luck to you QT!

Answer 4

You're stuck between a hard place and a rock aren't you dear. tell him that you're pregnant. If you think you should have your babe then have it if not then you can give it up or abord it. You sound young and I know this kinda stuff is hard to deal with. I bet your Mom doesn't know yet. You need to tell your fam or someone you know will help you get thru this. Unexpected pregnancy is sooo hard but its worse when you're left to deal alone. Sweetheart, you made a mistake by messing with your ex while he was with someone else in the first place, and he may not be so receptive at the fact that you're pregnant, so you need to be strong. You will endure pain, but help yourself to help your baby. I'm sure your best friend would love to have a nephew tho, so ask her for support. You'll need all you can get. It takes communication to work these kinds of things out. God bless you.

Answer 5

you don't say how old you are, but i hope you're continuing your education. reading your writing, you sound very young and you're probably too immature to handle a baby let alone having had the sex that got you pregnant in the first place. it also sounds like you're more concerned with the relationships you all have with each other than what the best thing is for you to do regarding this child that you and your ex-boyfriend are bringing into this world. the two of you need to determine (with reasonable and responsible adult assistance) what best for the baby....including allowing the baby to be adopted.

Answer 6

Man that pisses me off. No one in this day and age can say they don't know about contraception....thats f'n bullshit! You wouldn't be sleeping with your ex in the first place if you were any kind of self respecting person.....No excuses...so don't give yourself any!!! Your not just going to pop out a 'thing' you know. There is a human being that deserved better fore thought from you before you played that careless game of 'oh...what if i get pregnant...maybe then he will leave her'. I hope you don't rip this baby off any more than you already have by getting pregnant in the first place. Forget him..you have a child to think of now!!!!!

Answer 7

You need to tell your ex boyfriend. If he denies the baby thou, dont be surprised. If he cheated on his present girlfriend with you than he is probably having sex with other females. You really should tell him thou because you two asked for it just by going behind his girlfriends back. Thats just nasty. Also, you being pregnant is just another example of karma, what goes around comes around. So when he denies being the father dont be surprised. Guys like that, no matter how well you know him, can be surprising.

Answer 8

I'll translate this to english before I answer it:

I had sex with my ex-boyfriend and got pregnant. He has a new girlfriend. I'm a whore. His sister is my bestfriend. His new girlfriend knows we dated. We don't get along.

Answer: Grow up. You made a choice to have sex with him and got pregnant. You are now going to be a mother, be responsible and do what is right. Be a good mother to your baby.

Answer 9

I hope that you like the "Days of our Lives" theme. What do you mean what should you do??? I guess you should have left your ex alone and so should have he. I mean would you like to be in the other girls shoes??? Well I would suggest that you need to tell him only and then he can explain to his girlfriend what he did. Hopefully this other girl is smarter than she sounds and get the h*ll away from the triangle of "love".

Answer 10

well you should have had safe sex and not of messed with a crappy exboyfriend who is seeing someone else. how old are you? first you should tell your parents and the guy and decide what is best for the baby and yourself. remember a baby is a life long priority