2006-06-21 16:46:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that she's uneducated and rude.
Give her some books about Mahatma Gandhi and ask her to
read it for you.
2006-06-21 16:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to begin with how long have you been together? Do you hit her back and the next time you want to argue ask her to sit down and to please put both her hands under each of her legs and stand as far away from her as you can get perferably in front of an open door so you can walk away and leave this situation until she can maintain her behavior. .Just so you know once a hitter always a hitter and it only gets worse over the years. If you love her and she loves you in all honesty you both must come to an agreement as to what you will or will not tolerate in your relationship. At what point will you end this and never go back jnto this kind of relationship? You and her have got to come to some kind of understanding before one of you ends up in jail or hell plain and simple. My son had a girlfriend who constantly liked to hit him.Her mistake was letting me see her hit him. I called him into the house and asked him point blank why he didn't hit her back. He said because she is a girl and it didn't hurt. I called his little sister into the room and told her to beat him up. They both looked at me like I had lost my mind. I then asked my son what he would do if his sister hit him? Well his answer was I would hit her back just as hard as she hit me of course she 's my sister. My daughter went back to her room and my son went outside and broke up with the girlfriend. He came back in and said I woudln't hit her but your right she has no bussiness hitting me either. He refused to speak to her again and they both moved on to happier and healthier relatonships.
2006-06-22 00:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by yahoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called abuse and it happens everyday to men, women are NOT the only people to get abused physically in relationships. its wrong. no one has the right to put their hands on you unless you allow it. i imagine you don't like being hit out of anger, so tell her to stop and if she doesn't leave the room or house or where ever you are and let her cool off and then talk later. tell her its not behavior you are willing to put up with and remind her that you can call the police on her and have her arrested for battery, she might think twice about hitting you again. if she keeps doing it i would get out of the relationship.
2006-06-22 00:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by serendipity95207 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hitting is not cool. Talk to her and let her know that you are concerned about her anger management problem. She needs to discuss what is upsetting her with words not her fist. Suggest the 2 of you seek counseling. If this does not work try to separate for a while.
2006-06-21 23:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she does not kno how to control herself. She results to hitting u when she is really mad. You shuld straight up tell her that she shuldnt hit u. It may embarass her some but then she will probly think twice about hitting u in tha next argument b/c she doesnt want to b embarrassed about it.
2006-06-21 23:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your GF is very abusive. It is just as wrong for a girl to hit a boy as it is for a boy to hit a girl. Dump her and find someone who is more gentle and less abusive.
2006-06-21 23:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. She is abusing you. If you ever hit her, you can bet she'd be calling the cops. It is never ok to hit the person you're in a relationship with or to be hit.
2006-06-21 23:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by janinenc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait tone more time and knock her *** out she wont hit u nomore she hits u b/c your a punk and let her do it or call the cops and have her arrested let her spend the night in jail and say if u keep doing it im going to call the cops everytime
2006-06-21 23:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she can keep her hands to herself when you two have a discussion or argument. If she can't, be prepared to break it off. Hand play like that only leads to worse things later and if she can't respect something so simple, she obviously has issues and needs to be alone.
2006-06-21 23:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a abusive gf you have.......If I were you I will dump her because in a relationship never ever lay hands on each other.....since there is no respect why torture yourself......life is too short to realize..........be happy always and that makes life worth living.....
2006-06-21 23:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋