Why Do Girls Start Dating another Guy Right After Breaup? I dated a Girl For 3 Years, The Best 3 Years Of My Life. We Had So Much in Common, She Broke Up With And 3 days Later She With Another Guy. She Is 20 And he Is 27. Geez. He Is Fat And Kinda Ugly. Before We Broke Up She Said She Didnt Like Him And Wasnt Attracted To Him And That He Was Wierd, Now She Is With Him. WTF? Im Trying So Hard TO Get Her Back. We Had So MAny Future Plans. I Was Going To Marry This Girl. I Dont Know Why She Did This. She Doesnt Want To Talk To Me And Every Time I Tell Her about Our Dog And Our Car (We Had A Dog and A Car Together) She Says I Dont Want To Hear This, PLease Stop. i Dont Get It. PLease Help Me.
2006-06-21 16:26:27 · 8 answers · asked by money2myaccount 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, Girls wanna be loved and don't wanna show their emotions. If you really love her then tell her that, don't remind her of things be honest. Sometimes, things don't go they way u want them to. Trust me u may think she was the one but sooner or later you will find someone else who will be there for u. It just takes time, time to heal, time to think. There had to be a reason why yall broke up, so ask her. Just give it time, I promise you things will get better one way or another. Best Of Luck!
2006-06-21 16:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jayme M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoaa buddy, she said she don't want to hear this anymore when you told her about the dog and the car? Seriously I don't think you need help that much, I think she needs help. From what you said in the last few lines, that she doesn't want to hear it. She's ashamed and in a state of denial for breaking up with you. She's trying not to admit it that you and her had a great time together. Basically she was happy about you and her together. Now when he went with the fat guy it was obvious that she was in desperate need to find somebody else to love, somebody else to seriously run away and hide and deny the fact that her time with you was the best. I think she is really confused right now. She left you for a reason, now that what stops me from figuring out WHY she left you. Maybe she doesn't like a part of you or maybe you did something wrong. Maybe you should try to ask her and talk to her. good luck... oh yea by the way, when you mentioned the dog and the car right? it just pained her deep inside her. That strikes her in the depth and make her feel ashamed of herself.
2006-06-21 16:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. I wasn't going to respond but I feel I must. Do you believe things happen for a reason? I do. Same thing happened to me once. Someone gave me the best advise and now I'm going to pass it on to you. She said, " If you would have stayed with her, she was going to do this to you eventually. Better now then later. Also, do you really want to be with someone who didn't really seem to feel the same about you as you did for her? You cant make anyone stay or love you. When the right one comes along you will know and she will stay with you through think and thin, good and bad." And you know what, she was right. I found the right one and have been married now 6 years and very happy. It hurts for a little while and you don't know why. Just say to yourself " I was the best she ever had and she's really going to be missing out" That worked for me. Hope that helps.
2006-06-21 16:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was over you before you broke up. Girls go out with other guys to prove to themselves that they are still desireable, forget about a painful relationship or make someone jealous.
PS You Only Need To Capitalise The First Letter Of A Sentence And Proper Nouns, Its Hard To Read Like That.
2006-06-21 16:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was probably cheating on you.
She might of became scared to go any further and be tied down(as people view marriage anymore >.>) I had a girl I was dating and I was going to marry her she did the exact same thing practically really tore my heart out.
It's terrible when a girl can tell you they love you and dump you all in the same heart beat.
I mean practically a lot of people view it as oh its men they think with their penises which is definately not true with me.
Just realize we are in a world where men have been generalized as lying, selfish, sex obsessed maniacs with no feelings, and no regret. So good luck.
2006-06-21 16:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it sounds like this girl may have been seeing this guy behind your back. Or maybe she always had a thing for him and he had a thing for her, and she decided to be with him and left you. Or maybe she has been unhappy for a long time and was more than ready to move on. Maybe she did it to hurt you because she never wanted to see you or talk to you again. You may never know why. To me it seems like something was going on though behind your back, sorry. It doesn't matter what he looks like really, she could like him for other reasons, money, personality, etc. Obviously she just told you she wawsn't attracted to him and he was weird because she wanted to throw you off her scent. My question, why were you guys even talking about if she was attracted or not to him? That sounds weird, like there was a red flag before. I know it is hard, and I know you loved her deeply, and you wanted a future with her... but obviously she doesn't love you very much or care about you very much if she would do this to you. You just have to move on. It sounds like she broke up with you to be with him. Why would you want someone who doesn't want you? I know it sucks and it's extremely hard, but there are plenty of good women out there... You need to get over this trick and find someone who cares about you as much as you care about her. Unfortunatley when relationships end, there are many questions that will remained unanswered. Please move on, find someone willing to love you better than this girl. You are worth it. Move on, please, for your own good... It will be rough but you can do it.
2006-06-21 16:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
whats up Holaaa - scrap this clown, he's largely a pretend participant. do no longer enable him to coach it right into a reality. he's purely attempting to line ladies up - those dudes are loopy. i'm a guy, and am particularly classic and classic in terms of universal social relationships and customary jobs, and it purely amazes me to pay attention all those issues take place (like this dude telling you he can see you in his destiny at the same time as he has somebody, lol, wow).
2016-12-08 23:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by dricketts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that new ugly fat guy has a personality, but you haven't. and you girl friend really want this, that is why she broke up with you!
2006-06-21 16:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by lizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋