im starting to like her again, today i went up to talk to her and she couldnt stop smiling....wat do i do?
2006-06-21 16:21:52 · 15 answers · asked by Richard C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out, and don't walk out on her again, (unless she becomes scary obsessed)
2006-06-21 16:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lil' brother, continue just talking to her. Right now if you give her ANY indication you might be interested again she'll probably go insane on you again. Girls will stalk boys, trust me. I would just continue on with friendly converstaion or whatever naturally happens and see how she handles that and see if you still have those feelings after a couple of weeks (at the VERY least, 2 weeks, I suggest a month, lead her into it slowly). If after a few weeks, and she if is not following you like a kitten all over school during break or lunch (or after school), step up the game. She was all into you at one time. This is a girl that attaches VERY easily, be careful. See how she handles just friendship for a few weeks and if she is cool, like I said, step up your game a touch. I very much suggest, simply because you said she was "obsessed" with you, that you take it VERY slowly if you think you might be interested again. After stepping up your game a little each time (after the talking phase, if she is cool, try a dinner or a movie, but not dinner AND a movie, too soon. More talking and another movie/dinner and so on, you get the drift). This whole process should take at the minumum, 2 months. Sounds like jumping too quickly into anything will make her think you want to get married and have kids like RIGHT NOW. Anyway man, you see where I am leading you. Do it however you think is best, but I've been down the road (I am 32). You don't need a "good luck", you got game and sounds like she thinks you do too. Play it slow and smart.
2006-06-22 00:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by diceman74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 ppl speaking
P. 1:Listen I'm sorry to say but you broke up with her and if you really cared about her you wouldn't of left her. Um for a good relationship you need to have a person who isn't like that if you get back w/ her now what's going to stop her fro acting the same way again?*****
P.2: ^ Shes corny. I say you dont give a smack sh!t. And maybe she was smiling because there was something on your face or some sh!t. I say you go ask her, she says no then who gives a fuucckk desperate guys are unattractive.
2006-06-21 23:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you were so quick to break up? If the answer sounds reasonable to you ask yourself why you went back? Perhaps you do not know yourself as well as your should as this "obsessed girl" sees something about you that you do not? All very good questions you should ask yourself. Good luck with the answers and hope it expands your self worth and understanding.
2006-06-21 23:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she couldnt stop smiling then it probably means she still likes you more than a friend why dont you just ask her out?!?! and admit you shouldnt have broken up with her lol
2006-06-21 23:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her being obsessed with you then keep egging her on... that's what you are doing.. if she was obsessed with you before, I would imagine that contributed to why you broke up with her cause I know guys kind of dislike the whole "obsession" thaang...
but you keep going back to her, you are going to get her all worked up and she is going to think that you like her and then you are going to get irritated with the whole thing and it is going to start all over...
one of you (more than likely her) are going to get their heart broken... :(
give the gal a break...
2006-06-21 23:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still have feelings for her? If you do, then it's okay to try to be with her again. However, if you just wanted to play around, forget about it...
2006-06-21 23:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you reallly really really like her and WON'T leave her again then maybe you should ask her to come back
2006-06-21 23:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by Misery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asks her back out again.
2006-06-21 23:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Felix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share your Chocy bar with her.
2006-06-21 23:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋