I have been babysitting for the same family for going on 3 years, the kids are practically partially my kids but i have to quit because my parents want me to start paying for my own stuff(car payment, insurance, cell phone etc.) its hard for me to let them go but i know i need to do it and would also like to try something new. i also want to still be able to see the kids occasionally and still be a little involved still in their lives even though i am not going to be with them every day. how should i tell the parents this?
2006-06-21 16:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just be honest with the parents. Explain your situation to them about needing to pay for your car, insurance, etc - and also tell them that you need to try something new and more challenging. Explain to them that you love their kids and enjoy spending time with them, but that you just can't do it on a daily basis anymore. Let them know that you will be available for occasions to watch the kids and that you want to remain in their lives.
I am sure the parents will understand and they had to know that you wouldn't be there to babysit for them forever. Just be honest and down to earth - they will understand. Maybe off to stay with them for another couple weeks until they can get a replacement.
2006-06-21 16:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very responsible girl. I think it would be easiest to come out truthfully. At least for your sake. I mean I am sure they know you arent going to be there forever. It is a tough thing to do. How old are you? I definitely think it is smart to go out and get a real job, babysitting for 3 years, you certainly have learned all you can learn in that field. I;m sure the parents of the children will be very supportive of you.
Maybe you could give them other possible sitters that could fill in for you once you are gone. Also, definitely try to give them 2-3 weeks notice before you have to leave so that way they will have time to find a new sitter. And maybe sometime that you dont have to work you can stop by and sit in for a few hours or so. Good Luck
Im sure everything will turn out fine. youve taken the right steps so far.
2006-06-21 16:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain your situation to the parents. I know they'll understand. The kids will be sad but let them know you won't forget about them and that you'll keep in touch. Maybe you can even take them to the park or an outting sometimes on your day off. Good luck hun.
2006-06-21 16:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them that now that you are older, your bills are getting bigger and you need to seek employment that has more hours and more money. I would let them know how much you love and care about their children and would still like to see them as your new job will allow. If you were babysitting for me, I would totally understand that you need to get a job that allows you to pay your new bills. Give them as much notice as you can, and if you know someone that would do the job as good as you, reccomend them!
2006-06-21 16:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a nanny, I can only suggest being honest with them. They may even want to use you still on occassion.
Good luck, saying goodbye to the kids is a hard job.
Been there, done that.
2006-06-21 16:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by jenkaye03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a reason that is understandable, they'll understand. that sounds like a resonable excuse to me. tell them the truth, even though its hard i know. and offer them a replacement. that will make it much easier on them and they won't have to worry about finding a new sitter also. offer to babysit on the weekends if you need to. just not everyday
2006-06-21 16:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by nieder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth, and give them a little notice so they can find someone else (like 2 weeks). If you have a friend that you trust who could take over, recommend him or her to them.
2006-06-21 16:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by neanah_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,you should definitely quit before they ask you to babysit again.It might be a good idea to include why you must quit.Apologize for the sudden decision.I'm sorry if this answer doesn't quite answer your question.
2006-06-21 16:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by sunshinee<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them what you just said in your question. It was very touching and I'm sure they'll understand. As people get older their financial responsibilities get bigger and you ask for a raise or you change jobs.
2006-06-21 16:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth to them. They'll understand
2006-06-21 16:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋