I don't want to be too specific but the guy i like knows me, has hugged me, and always trys to make conversation with me. But he has a life and i don't want to interfere with that , but i think i love him.
he is very nice, and funny, smart and sophisticated. Another thing is that he is way older than me by 20 years. but i hope that doesn't get in the way with my feelings. i mean i don't think he loves me in that way but i think he knows i like him. i hope he does. should i still believe that i have a chance with him or should i just give up but still love him?
2006-06-21 16:20:24 · 13 answers · asked by citygirl18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age is not important in a relationship as long as the people are adults. I have alwys preferred older men. The man I have been with for the past four years is more than 30 years older than me. Of course you get the odd stares sometimes but when you love someone it doesn't bother you. I say wait it out and see what happens, follow your heart.
2006-06-21 16:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with being in love with a older man. Im in the same boat seeing a older guy he has his own life etc......... and dont want to interfear but bite the bullet and come up with small talk about relationships and stuff and see what his options are then go from there
2006-06-21 23:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by holden1982 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in being attracted to an older man/woman. However, if this guy has a wife and family you need to get your head on straight and back off. If he's single then thats another story - go for it and ask him out or let him know how you feel.
2006-06-21 23:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, it's not crazy. it's a fantasy/fetish for some women. probably stems from issues with their relationships with their fathers. 20 years seems a bit much, however, since "he has a life" and you "don't want to interfere with that" read: he's married with kids... and you're probably like 17. so stay away! he does not and will no "love you in that way" you don't even know what love is..
2006-06-21 23:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I fell for a guy 13 years older than me, as long as you are an adult and relate to each other than there's no real problem.
2006-06-21 23:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with an older guy
2006-06-21 23:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
''Age aiint nothing but a number a number aint nothing but a thing the love I have for you will never change'', tell him that. But I don't see nothing wrong with that if you want it go for it.
2006-06-21 23:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a crush on an older guy..... get active with people yer own age,it will pass.. if he is married it will ruin many peoples lives.. love is so complicated
2006-06-21 23:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Betty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might have a chance with him if you are over 25. If you're not, well then screw it, you wont get em. try being yourself and being confident,
2006-06-21 23:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by Okeydokey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two ppl takling
ppl 1: Hi um as long as you over 18 you cann have any guy you want. You are probably as mature as he is if you like him.
person 2: Diddo. If he's married and has kids. Leave him alone. Age aint nuttin' but a number. I like a man that dun be 30 years older than me, but he dun be Christopher Meloni from my favorite show LAW & ORDER:SVU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!sigh.
2006-06-21 23:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋