My boyfriend was gone for 7 months across state working as a truck driver,?

Question

we seen each other religiously every 2 weeks the entire time, then his best friend moved there to work as well, the last 3 or 4 weeks that they were there, his friend hooked up with a gal named Deb and they all partied together...but there was also a gal named Nikki or Vikki, who was actually a wife of one of the guys' co-workers. My boyfriend tells me nothing happend, but that she wanted it to? I know I could probably find out the truth myself, but should I just let the dead dog lie....or should I hunt her down and throw her to the dogs and then give her husband the gun to get it over with? I know it's all about trust, I just don't know that I feel her husband needs to live behind the times...

Answer 1

The woman is her husbands problem. You need to confont the problem in front of you, your husband. Worry about getting the truth out of him. I am a truckers wife and cheating is one of the leading causes of divorce in our community. Your only issue is your man, if he was loyal to you dispite this woman's advances then you don't have a problem. What is done in darkness is always bought to light. Her husband will eventually find out. If nothing happened then there is nothing to tell!!! As far as the comment that truckers don't run for month's, that is far from accurate. Truckers, do exactly that TRUCK. If you are meeting up with your man every other weekend then he doesn't really have to come home he will just keep on trucking, and why is he worried about how pretty your name is. STOP HITTING ON HER. Talk to your man and forget the other nonsense. Don't let anyone try to convince you that he is cheating. I don't agree with cheating, but I don't agree with relationship sabotage either!!!!

Answer 2

Fact: Your boyfriend did her, and probably twice. I'm a man and a man would not have mentioned anything unless he was feeling a litthe guilty, and was younger and stupid. Or he really wanted to do her but it was the wrong time and place to get away with it, and she is still on his mind. I also used to be a truck driver.

Fact: Men don't have flings for love, or fall in love during it (unless of course she looks like Halle Berry and has Trumps money) they do it for the sex. And a hard dic* has no conscience.

Fact: Who cares what a slut or whore does, and especially if it's a total stranger(s), her husband will probably find out some way or another.

Fact: You go to jail for shooting people, even though there are about a billion people I would love to, unless you bury them somewhere they can never be found like that Marco lawyer guy. Don't try this, because you usually get caught before you can bury them, or they find blood or skin traces somewhere.

Answer 3

I would never tell anyone anything that might break them up unless I was 100% positive. Truckers are a different breed. My husband drives across the USA, he comes home for 2 days every 2 weeks. It is about trust, but many of them can't be trusted. They feel they are in another state, who will know? Thank God, we are older, and I know my husband doesn't cheat on me, nor would I on him, or i'd be gone. You shouldn't track her down, if I'm reading you right, it isn't any of your business.

Answer 4

I think you shouldn't do anything. Even if you have pictures, their genetic material on the hotel sheets, and the receipts for the condoms. Keep out of this. Making her look like a tramp will not help you, and can be dangerous for you if she's crazy. Instead, keep your man close, work on your relationship, and live your life. Trust me, what's done in the darkness will come to the light. He's not the only one she tried to hook up with. She'll get hers.

Answer 5

Melody!! What a lovely name!!

But to the point....I'm in transportation...and have never heard of any driver being on the road for seven months...even my national drivers are home at least three days out of every 21...so you do the math. I think you will find out that your boyfriend was just having way to much fun to come home.

Answer 6

If he told you that, it means one of two things:

1) He didn't do anything and he wants to have an open relationship, or
2) He did and he's hoping you'll figure out he's lying and leave him

In either case, he will only think you're a total whacko if you went after this gal. Get over it.

Answer 7

ask yourself do you really want to know?
then can you handle the truth?
then think of the outcomes that could happen.

Can you forget or must you know. Vindictiveness has never solved anything, it in fact can drive wedges in relationships.

You need to ask yourself those questions and then within yourself will you find the answer to your question. The truth can be powerful, but also the truth can be devastating.

Answer 8

Manof is truly superb. Many companies will enable in user-friendly terms a maried significant different or baby/sibling etc.One must be legally family contributors. My company won't enable my significant different with me except we marry. My daughter from a prior marriage can flow however. whether I leased a truck from them the story is the comparable. Sharon

Answer 9

Do you really want to bring all that misery down on yourself. If you trust him, let it go. If you suspect anything, ask him point blank and ask him to be a man, and tell the truth.

Answer 10

well if u trust every1 involved mayb sum1 is lying to u? and then in that case u should let it go because ur going to accuse people and i may not have acctualy happened that way.