I know he likes me, and I really like this guy but I'm afraid. I would like to get to know him better than I do. We've known each other for about seven months and started dating a month ago, but I really never call much, he does must of the calling. Should things change now that we had sex????? Please help me, am very affectionate, and would really like to be myself with him.
2006-06-21 15:50:59 · 21 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u can call him, because you are one step up in the relation; so i think it would be nice if you act in consequence of your feelings, and to show him that the more you know him, the more you like him. If hes really into you, im sure he will feel great, and if he doesnt, then check what you got in hands, because u dont want to fall in love with someone that wont feel the same way about you.
GOD bless you!
2006-06-21 15:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Shannella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats stopping u girl?
Call that man, there are so many women who have asked " why the guy hasn't called her after having sex"
By urself around him and stop this not calling him, because if u don't start showing your affections towards him, then he's gonna end up with some else who's not as shy about calling him or showing how she feels about him. Then u be wondering " Why didn't I just show him how I felt and why didn't I just pick up the phone and call him more"
So call him and show him u feel something for him( if u want to continue with him)
2006-06-21 15:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am still trying to understand why you wouldn't call him. Usually the girl calls but he must really like you if he is going out of his way to call you , you might confuse him and make him think that yall are only sex buddies. Especially if yall ain't got that deep of a bond cause it takes me a long time before i feel comfortable calling a girl. Which means he ain't got nobody on the side if he has all that time to think about calling you. Well he thinks about you alot probably still trying see where yall are going with this. Get to the dialing girl. good Luck!
2006-06-21 15:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Chauncy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with who you are, if your the type of person to call after having sex then call him. But dont change your aditude after having sex, thats when guys get confused. If you were very affectionate before having sex then after sex would not be a problem. It's being over offectionate after sex you should be worried about.
2006-06-21 15:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by blabalbalus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you'd really like to get to know him? Shouldn't you have done that BEFORE you had sex with him? He might have never called you again, then what? I would let him call, that way you know he wants to talk, not just cause you cornered him. He might also think, hey she was easy, so he doesn't want to have a relationship with you. Why pay for the cow when the milk is free?
2006-06-21 15:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not saying that you had sex with this guy before you knew everything about him are you???
Oh Lordy...big big big big Mistake.
Good luck with your next guy. As soon as you start calling him instead of letting him call you when he's in the "MOOD" there will be some kind of problem that he will find (no matter how hard he has to look) to use as a reason to break up with you.
2006-06-21 15:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you guys had sex so why shouldn't you call him. If he does most of the calling and I know he sees that. If you were comfortable enough to have sex with him them there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to be your self @ him. Call him a little more I think he may like that.
2006-06-21 15:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by jean22005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that there are mutual feelings, then by all means call the man, the fact that you had sex does change things a bit, but if he is still the same person you knew before you did it, then evreything should be fine
2006-06-21 15:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♫jmann♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already had sex and are still worried about putting him off by calling him, you've got bigger problems than worrying about whether to call him. Do what you feel comfortable with. If you can't be yourself with him without worrying whether he will still like you, don't have sex with him.
2006-06-21 15:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you don't phone him he'll think he did something wrong or take it person. It's ok, call him. His attitude when you phone will let you know rather or not you should call him a second time. Good luck hun.
2006-06-21 15:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋