how can i find a man?

Question

i am a 25 year old single black mother of 3, who just recently broken off a 6 year relationship, i am finding it hard to meet single men

Answer 1

I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too. I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right. I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date. But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me...

I have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way...

I know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true. not sure..

I would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you....

Whereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...

Answer 2

Meeting single men is hard, and I'm sure it's even more of a challenge when you throw three kids into the mix.

There are several ways you can meet men.

Church groups

College - there are financial incentives for being a single mother who goes back to school. Single men (with good job prospects) and money... how could you lose?

Clubs- not the "night club" kind of club... pick an interest in something... a craft/hobby, a martial art... anything that keeps your mind active and puts you in a situation where the classes are a good mix of men and women.

Friends

These are but a few of the options available to you. Go to your local community center or navigate the Internet and see what's available in your area. You might be surprised at what you'll find.

Answer 3

first u need to give yourself a break just be alone for a while u dont need to rush backinto anything just let itbe aboutu and the kids and to be truthful 3 kids u have a ready made family not to many men want that nowadays and im a black sister giving u advice just chill for a minute and whenu think the time is right go out to a party a social gathering church would be better the park the laundrymat grocerystore mall or just wait and mr right will come your way also remember u have 3 kids to think of so choose wisely u cant have just anybody around them

Answer 4

Your prince will come when you least expect it. It always seemed to me that paired off people always said that to single people to shut them up but since it happened to me I know it's true!
If you just ended a long relationship are you sure you're ready to dive right back in? Maybe some time alone with your kids would help you find some peace and relax about meeting a man.

Answer 5

Look maybe talk 2 dudes on line mybe go on blind date. How about one of those dating agentcies. Or do what you did to start that 6 year relationship. Just keep on trying Girl. But you might want to lay off on the kids and make sure that your kids like whoever u meet & that whoever u meet likse u're kids.

Answer 6

I was a single mother of 3 as well and my eldest daughter is disabled...I met a wonderful man with 2 kids...we met on Match.com....we are now engaged to be married....its worth a shot.

Answer 7

Maybe they're afraid of 4-6.

Answer 8

go to a club or other dating spots and set aside time with out your kids

Answer 9

Women, just dress sexy, don't take your kids with you everywhere, wear make-up, and stick tissues in your bra.

Answer 10

I can't understand why that would be....