Shes makin me look like the bad guy after she called my a ******..then i said shut the heck up! so wut do i do...im starting to not love her anymore...i still do though..help please!
2006-06-21 15:40:48 · 26 answers · asked by gonewithdawind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not u poured my heart out its i
2006-06-21 15:42:28 · update #1
dont get me wrong hear..i didnt scream shut the heck up at her..i said it softly...but yea i gt some points being made
2006-06-21 15:48:54 · update #2
im not getting into what the joke was but it was a sarcasm joke...and it was so obviously sarcastic the way i said it even after she cussed the hell outt of me
2006-06-21 15:50:38 · update #3
Sometimes when we like someone we tend to let our feelings get in front of the situation at hand. She was easily hurt by a joke because of her vunerability in this relationship and I suspect she carries her feelings like a rock on her shoulder which makes it easy for you to know it off. She is a bit insecure and knowing this you might want to be a bit more sensitive to her feelings as this is something she won't change at the blink of an eye. Be the bigger person, apologize and promise you'll be more aware of your personal jokes about her. This will make her feel a lot better and stop her from pissing you off as well. Good luck hun
2006-06-21 15:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 21:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-28 11:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are more serious than others, and can't seem to lighten up. These people are the most difficult to deal with. If you are a jokester, your girlfriend should already know that. If she can't handle it, maybe the best thing for you...and her... would be to let the relationship go. I know it's easier said than done, but it'll only get a lot harder as time goes on.
2006-06-21 15:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are starting not to love her over a fight... you never loved her in the first place.
Shut the Heck up... is a way of telling her you don't care what her opinion is.
A(ss)hole... is a way of telling you you are being mean.
Just tell her you are sorry and that you love her, (if you really do love her), and that you didn't mean it.
word of advice for next time--- never say shut up... try to listen to what a girl has to say... even if she is insulting you...
We tend to talk our thoughts out... but think men should think before they speak... I know it's not fair...
But that's Females for you!
2006-06-21 15:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥-=-TLCNJ19-=-♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys had a fight. You don't say what the joke was but obviously your humor is not the same as hers. I say get to know what is her humor, she's letting you know already. Either respect it or break up with her. A joke shouldn't cause a breakup -- unless you are already bored and just looking for some lame *** excuse.
2006-06-21 15:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by kikabeanpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what the joke was about, but if it was about her, shame on you. No woman likes to have her physical attributes the source of a joke or sarcastic comment. Tell her your sorry, buy her some flowers and work it out.
2006-06-21 15:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by lmdragonldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, sounds like ya'all may need a break... maybe you have been spending too much time together. I would suggest backing off just a bit for now. If not spending too much time together, maybe she really is too uptight for your jokes, and she is not your type.
If I had a b/f (or g/f in your case) and he got pis-ed off everytime I went to make a joke, I would be very upset. I wouldn't want to stay with someone who didn't laugh at my jokes.
2006-06-21 15:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how females are, right or wrong, you've got to deal with if---if you care about her at all. Plus, you've got to realize that people, even the ones you love, aren't always going to make you happy all the time, mainly because they're unhappy about something. Figure out what's wrong and get through it.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-21 15:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-29 18:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋