for instance, your with someone and your happy but then theres times when arguments or things is not going the way it suppose to be.
2006-06-21 15:36:52 · 20 answers · asked by jennie1269 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love doesn't hurt. It's when your feelings aren't reciprocated or the person you think you love turns out to be a jerk that you think love is hurting you. It's the person and their action, not love. And if someone treats you bad, they don't deserve your love and it's time for you to move on and find someone who deserves it and will cherish and respect it and you.
2006-06-21 15:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by kikabeanpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not only love that hurts you it is life that hurts us. Without the pain we would never be able to fully be happy in our lives. We have to take the good things and the bad ones. With love if you are truly lucky then you will get to enjoy a-lot more of the ups in a relationship then the downs but there has to be a balance in a relationship which means we take the good with the bad. Love hurts and we know that but in the end it is all worth it. Love is not perfect there will be arguments and things that upset you both just be sure that you can work out your problems and talk out the problems and be open and honest with each other then love.
2006-06-21 22:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by shawnee22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is Life. Life's a struggle. As one great black leader said; "Without struggle there can be no progress." Many people would kill to be in the "disposition" you're complaining about. The point is, would you rather be lonely in such a hateful world. Or have someone who loves you---even if you do get into petty arguments. Love hurts, yes. But loneliness kills.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-21 22:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When love is not shared it hurts, when opinions are not shared an argument may happen. Don't confuse one with the other. Beside after the the fight you 2 can make up and that's whats called love.
2006-06-21 22:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it hurts b/c it's wrong and you know it, but you're trying to convince yourself that it's right.
If the arguments are serious and frequent, it's probably time to re-evaluate the relationship. Just some time apart may help--the whole relationship may not be completely wrong.
B/c you've got to step back and think--how happy are you REALLY when you're fighting so much you feel that you've got to ask this question?
2006-06-21 22:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called life sweetheart. No relationship is going to be perfect all the time because not even on a intimate level, people disagree, its a part of being human. Its ok to disagree with your mate, its how you handle those hard times that tells if the love hurts.
2006-06-21 22:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl look everything isn't like soooooooooooooooooooooo
perfect. Love hurts because every1 doesn't get in live at the same time or the couple just isn't right 4 each other.there are many fish in the sea you just have to catch the right 1.!
2006-06-21 22:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to compromise sometimes.. but love does hurt cause it involves your heart... my friend and i have both in this last year been hurt by men.. they care about you so much for months then overnight it seems they change and you do not even know why...but it does hurt and i know for me it is taking a while to get over it.. i can not seem to want to be involved with a man more than a casual friend now...and lots of them do not like that but i can not do any more...so good luck and hang in there..
2006-06-21 22:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are taking hits for 2 people, yourself, and your love. When somone talks junk about the girl I like, I feel it hit me worse than as if it was said to me. Its really complicated. Thats only one of many reasons why it can hurt.
2006-06-21 22:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by mickelmac353 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because strong feelings are involved. so, naturally, if theres an arguement or things dont go the way u want, ur gonna get hurt.
2006-06-21 22:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Nataliana T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋