I told my bf I just wanted to be friends b/c I feel my relationship with him was more satifying as his friend only. Still a bit of flirtiness and such...but anyway since becoming friends only, hes been making small promises and breaking them. Things like I will call you back and he doesnt. He said he would come see me today 5 hrs ago! I have yet to see or hear from him. To tell the truth I would have rather broken up with him and not talk 2 him anymore, but I did not want to deal with his guilt trip. My feeling arent so hurt, I just feel that his promises are uneccessary and more annoying than anything. I feel like saying to him: give it a rest, theres nothing sincere between us anymore. Ive stopped calling him and he calls every other day, I figure he'll stop entirely eventually. So the question is should I be cool about it and let it just fizzle out on its own or end it abruptly?
2006-06-21 15:32:04 · 8 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends are supposed to be understanding of each other's little faults and flaws. But since he makes vain, little promises and considers them unimportant enough to not bother with the apology or even explanations, I would let him know that this friendship is not acceptable as it wastes your time and energy.
This will serve as an ultimatum and a chance for him to make good as a friend.
If he's kinda slow and doesn't get the picture, stop communicating with him. He's not important to you and you've already given him a last chance.
2006-06-21 15:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U may should lay ur cards on the table first. Because to say he's gonna call or come over nad don't thats just wrong. He should know that u don't like it when he does this because u have better things to do then wait around to see if he's gonna stop by or call.
If u should tell him I hope u still end up friends =-)
2006-06-21 15:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a girl a while ago and we had talked for a couple weeks and she acted really into me until i sent her a pic of me in uniform, since im a cop and she knew that anyways.. but i called her the next day and she said she was napping and that she would call me back and she never did... so i sent her a text saying it was nice to meet her and see ya later. Havnt heard from her at all for 2 weeks now.
2006-06-21 15:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rangers ends quiet?! have you ever even been to the two ends? And it for sure relies upon on what team you help! And a technique or the different i do no longer think of the Celtic end would be singing and dancing! no longer for long besides!
2016-10-31 06:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by falls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it fizzle out. And don't view his "promises" as promises. Just look at them as "maybe's". If he shows, he shows, if not, so what. Same with the calling. Since you are no longer interested in him romantically, it won't bother you whether you see or hear from him or not.
2006-06-21 15:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all guys and girls can't be friend the guy will always want more a hug and a kiss on the cheek is not going 2 do 4 him is going 2 want more get rid of him u just torturing him if u don't
2006-06-21 15:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Prodical Son 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up and remaining friends is nonsense. Just move on already. He's not your friend, he's hoping to get back in your pants one more time.
2006-06-21 15:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about it, but I would rather let it fizzle out, it will happen fast enough.
2006-06-21 15:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋