if you din't wanted to break up with your relationship but you and your partner were in two different pages, you end up talking trying to work things out and both side didn't really agreed on what was said so it was time to move on, how do u deal with the heart broken or should i call, tjhe only thing that can happen she can call and say i'm not gonna hang out with guys and im not gonna do things that upset you or make you jelous things would be different, im more of a lay back kind of guy and i want a girl that would be there for me not for every guy that calls her so i guess is her call but hurts because i gave her my heart before she told me she liked hanging out with guys and going to the bar etc. so it sucks!!!
2006-06-21 15:23:33 · 15 answers · asked by mitsu422bishi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it go...go on with your life , the real girl will come along
2006-06-21 15:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised to find out that the asker is a guy. Anyway, I have been to this kind of situation before....it's really too bad that love wasn't enough to make your relationship survive the distance. Well, since you both have decided to go separate ways. You have no other ways but deal with it, how? I'm glad that you are a laid back person, only few guys are like you and for that reason alone i'm sure you will easily find a new girl. Spend time with your family most of the time so you will be able to divert the love you are suppose to give your ex-gf, to this equally important people. Keep yourself busy with other worthwhile activities, example, join a church organization...who knows you will find God's gift for you there! bottom line is there is nothing wrong with long distance relationships, it can work out if both party decides to. Now if one gives up and is not commited enough don't mourn....move on! there's so much in life that you should enjoy....don't waste your loving time :)
2006-06-22 04:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by marguerite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are feeling hurt like this. Most long distance relationships are a real struggle for just the reason you mention. Both male and females want to socialize...it's a normal thing. People need other people.
Since you can't be with the one you care for because of distance or any other reason, it is not going to stop the other from wanting to enjoy their life.
If there is a chance you can be together physically anytime in the near future, it would probably be worthwhile to discuss this and try to make peace with it. If you are not going to be together physically, it would probably be best to move on so you can both meet others and have a normal life.
I wish you happiness.....
2006-06-21 22:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from experience right now that she doesn't want to be with you anymore. If you call her, you are only putting yourself through further pain and agony. Especially if you are a laid back guy who wants her to be with you and not out with others, well you calling her and bugging her is going to PI$$ her off and she is going to go out and bop the first guy that comes along, and with this being a long distance relationship, I am sorry to say, I would be surprised if she hasn't already been with other guys....
Long distance relationships are so hard sweetie... and now with this statement that she has currently made, I would lose her number and move on...
Unless of course she calls you... first!
2006-06-21 22:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation. I don't hang out or go to the bar, so I cried for a while....and eat too much, especially if there's an abundance of food in the house. I like to sleep. I guess, I would act out my sadness. I think I'm still doing that. Good Luck to you.
2006-06-21 22:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on if shes the kind of girl who likes to hang out w/ dudes in a bar and she has a boyfriend she wasnt the one for you anywayz and dont give up on love :-)
2006-06-21 22:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by angelface9011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to me before i love the guy so much...it was a long distance relationship....we lasted for 1 1/2 yrs. eventually we broke up becoz he found another ....i have to let him go, i found another relationship but still i long for my xbf, i decided to break up with this current relation....i dont know but after 6 months my bf approached me and said he wanted to make up with me again...fortunately i said yes....i dont know i guess the right word there is "if you are meant for each other it will always be there, if it is not for you, even though you push thru with it, it will not be yours
2006-06-21 22:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by khatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on an forget about here you will get another girlfriend
2006-06-21 22:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by crazyinlove_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for other relationships!! There's other fish in the sea!
2006-06-21 22:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa Sue S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that's the longest f***ing sentence I've ever read. Forget buying a vowel. Buy some periods please!
2006-06-21 22:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by big_j_gizzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋