I sometimes feel I am alone in this situation. I am in my 40's and have a very strong and healthy sexual appetite. Am I alone or are there other people out there with the same drive as me. Do you feel like you are different or do others look at you like a "Sex Addict"? I would love to hear from others, who honestly understand what I am going through....women especially. And for you men, what are your thoughts on if you had a woman that wanted sex as much as I do? Can you keep up with her? Do you get tired of her always wanting it?
2006-06-21 15:20:24 · 19 answers · asked by janedo63 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe what you need to do is allow more room for foreplay maybe get him in the mood >>personally i like oral sex as a way to stimulate interest and its also good if you like getting it >>takes the pressure off going all the way everytime
2006-06-21 15:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by ed p 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with being a woman in my 40's and having a strong, healthy sexual appetitie?
Absolutely nothing!!!
There are many women at your age with that desire...trust me-you are far from alone.I know alot of older women at work...sometimes I hear the way they talk-as if they can't get enough...I do believe you are one of many older females that have posted a similar question like this one.
"what are your thoughts on if you had a woman that wanted sex as much as I do? Can you keep up with her? Do you get tired of her always wanting it?"
There's nothing more attrcative to me than an older female that looks better than her age...especially one with a strong,healthy appetite for sex!
Keeping up with her is not the question...getting tired of her always wanting it never crossed my mind!
2006-06-21 15:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by str8sik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the the DIFFERENT ones are the ones who have sex once or twice a month. There is nothing wrong with having a good appetite for something soooo good. Never get tired of her wanting it. Keeping up with her? Men in their 40's sometimes need a little help to keep up or keep it up, they make a little blue pill for that.
2006-06-21 15:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by DoubleR815 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's absolutely nothing wrong with having a healthy sexual appetite at any age. If I'm not mistaken, according to Kinsey's scale of human sexuality, women tend to peak between 35-45, so no, you're certainly not alone.
2006-06-21 15:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 42 yrs old, and there is nothing wrong with having a healthy sexual appetite. I have a very large appetite but my wife does have one at all. I'm not a sex addict. Can I keep up with you. the question would be could you keep up with me. I wish I could get a woman who wanted it as much as I do. I'd never get tired of seeing her naked and waiting for me to please her. And I'm not just talking straight sex, I go for the whole shabang!!!!!!!!!!!!! anyway and everyway she wants it!!!!
2006-06-21 15:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by jtracer48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think there is anything wrong with you at all... i am 53 and i am the same way when i find someone i really care about.. i like familiar person to be with and it is good to have someone that wants to make love to you....i do not think you are a sex addict at all.....i do not think a man would get tired of it if you keep it different and spice it up with candles, baths together or showers.. romantic scenes and use your imagination...
2006-06-21 15:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with that and you're pretty much in your sexual peak or prime but the hungrier you are the better plus i encourage you to seek out anything or anyone to feed your need for sex because no appetitie is too big for anyone
2006-06-21 15:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Twan180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf or husband is very fortunate. It's normal for women to peak sexually in their 30's and 40's.
2006-06-21 15:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Zacko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with it and you're not alone. Fortunately alot of women are like you; taking control of their sex life. More power to you!
2006-06-21 15:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Man and I had a gf that is in her 40's and she worked me out pretty good and yes I got tired.I had to go back to work to rest up.
2006-06-21 15:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋