why dont you get to choose your parents?

Question

my parents always fight, almost eveyday....we almost adopt their that bad routine....it affects our activities....i the scandal it brings to my family...and it is as if they are not affected...i them

Answer 1

You're parents made you. You can't choose. And think of your parents like a pair of "best friends". Like you and your friends, you fight with them at times and you say alot of stuff like, "I hate you!" or "get away". But in the end, it all works out. Parents are the same thing. It'll work out eventually.

Answer 2

Your parents are called you parent because they are the ones that brought you into this world. So how can you expect to pick something before you are even born. The rest of your question was more confusing than you seem to be.

Answer 3

Some spiritually evolved people will tell you that in fact, while you were still a spirit awaiting your time on Earth, that you DID in fact choose your parents.

The trials they put you through are for learning purposes. Purposes that you as an imperfect soul need to learn about during your time here on Earth.

Those lessons. as much as it might not make sense, help you to become a better person/soul.

Answer 4

if you arent even born how can u choose your own parent?
anyways i feel the same way, my parents fight aloooooooooot, if it wasnt for me and my siblings then my dad would of divorced my mom by now. i know how you feel..it happens everyday to me but sometimes they get along.only sometimes....once in a week probaly. well atleast you have parents.atleast your not an orphan...........trust me being an orphan is much worse. just thank God for wat you have before you lose it.