ive been seeing a guy for just over a year. Should i wait until he makes his move or should i make a move? I really like the guy. Please help
2006-06-21 15:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by holden1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait until he makes his move most men don't like dominating woman
2006-06-21 15:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by sexy chocolate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way this man is going to know what's up, you have to put it on the table. Find out what he want, let it be known what you want and take it from there.
If you have any ideas of how you want. what you want let that be known also.
Now on the flip side of this is what role do you really play in this man life. Since you stated he has not made any moves could mean he is gay or only see you as a friend.
Just in case things work out for you PLEASE USE PROTECTION, FOR INSTANCE BIRTH CONTROL AND MOST OF ALL CONDOMS.
2006-06-21 22:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by queenshasha2hot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough and mature enough go for it if not wait cause if you all have been together for a year and nothin gonin down you sound as if you have a safe and secure relationship! Sex is fun and wonderful but it ain't every thing, good luck remember be safe cause god knows ya don't want to get pg on first time with the guy!
2006-06-21 22:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you mean by "make a move." If you mean "have sex," then don't bother honey. If you haven't yet in a year, you're not going to because he's gay. Now, if you're talking about getting more serious or perhaps married, I would suggest trying to subtlety bringing up the topic first to see how he's going to react. Good luck!
2006-06-21 22:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he really like u as well? If so then it's ok if u make a move. If he pulls back ask him whatsup. If he says he wants to make the moves then say it's beena yr and u haven't made it yet are we friends as in buddies or friends as in girlfriend /boyfriend and why haven'y u made a move either way?
2006-06-21 22:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is really new to me... i never thought there was a man left alive that would wait a year and not try to make a move...is he gay or what????i would just ask him if he has real feelings for you and tell him how you feel...get it out in the open and find out what his plans our for you and him....
2006-06-21 22:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. You should begin to talk to him about where this is going though. Not anything all confrontational or needy, just a "I need to know" conversation. Then drop it and let him lead. He's been there a year, your doing something right.
2006-06-21 22:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the move
2006-06-21 22:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by nea_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the 1950's girlfriend! Go ahead and let him know how you feel before some other woman snatches him up! Good Luck!
2006-06-21 22:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by my_first_love_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make the move he could be shy.
2006-06-21 22:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by Shy Williams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋