I asked for a divorce if she doesn't stop drinking! She cannot keep leaving her smelly stinking drawers in the Bar all drunked up every night. It is disgusting! THIS REALLY HAPPENED! What should I do? Give her another chance to stop drinking or just leave her?
2006-06-21 15:08:36 · 17 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
You want a divorce over that?! The too much drinking part is understandable and if you really love her and still want to be married, you should definitely sit her down and let her know her drinking habbits bother you. But as far as leaving her stinky undies at bars (which, yeah, is really gross!) you married her for better, for worse and you honored to stick to that when you said, "I Do". I think you should just sit with her and talk to her. If this was your girlfriend or some girl you were just dated it would be different but this is your wife! Can't say I didn't giggle at what she did though. At least she can give ya a good laugh! Good luck!
2006-06-21 15:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well first, get her some new undies. then, try to make sure no beans before bar. if that doesnt work then i would talk to her, i would actually do that first, the others were just a joke ha ha if you didnt understand that, anyway, there has to be a reason why shes doing it, drinking, maybe the two of you need to work something out, where maybe you didnt even know there was something wrong. maybe shes going thru something, or perhaps she need help, from something higher than you. but she needs your support, you shouldnt threaten with divorce. guys always do that when theres a problem cause they lack some serious communication skills. and they just dont want to deal with things. if anything a divorce would just make things harder on her, if you love her stay with her and help her, but dont punish or threaten her. plan something to do together that doesnt involve drinking for a day and spend time and talk. but dont throw it all in her face to make her mad. just let her know your worried.
2016-05-20 10:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she fart a wet one before or after she beat her mother for abusing your child? I thought the question sounded a bit too much like bad acting but I didn't want to question it in case there really was a child that had been hurt. You really are a stinker!!
Really, I'm just glad no baby was hurt - some of these posts scare me!!
2006-06-21 15:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Carla&Len C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to stay out of the bar. You cannot make her stop drinking. She has to want to or it will never work. Also, if she is that bad of an alcoholic, she will need to be in a supervised, hospital type setting so she doesn't die while detoxing. It happens.
2006-06-21 15:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reported.
2006-06-21 15:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by crao_craz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many people start to drink because they have problems they wanna resolve or forget about...ask your wife if she wants to talk about something that bothering her...if she tells you maybe she'll stop drinking...you can help ease the transistion if you yourslef stop drinking either for the timebeing or altogether...i think it would mean alot to your wife...but if that doesnt work, i think she should see a therapist or go to rehab...good luck...
2006-06-21 15:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by De$ErT_FoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir, only you can answer that. Can you start being a good example by staying away for such places? And we did not need to hear about your wife's' "accident"!
2006-06-21 15:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really up to you. But yeah that gross! You wanna give her one more chance okay, but as soon as shes drunk again then u know what to do.
good luck
2006-06-21 15:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew. Yeah. Don't drink anymore. Either of you.
2006-06-21 15:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by brookeb61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you posted this for the laugh factor, sorry, it didn't do anything for even a smile.
2006-06-21 15:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by angieasee64 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋