How bad or frown upon is being attracted to a cousin??? and how bad is it to want him?

Question

Okay...I don't want to sleep with him....but he is very cute and he kissed me...I didnt kiss him back...though I wanted to...

Answer 1

I think it's fine to have sexual thoughts for a cousin. We are human and human have sexual thought for the different sex. But just don't act out on it. U.S social culture have a big frown on incest. If you decided to take the leap, you might have people telling you that you are sick and very wrong to do or think that. Your not sick, you just know what you want and is strong enough admit it. The people who disagree the most is often the one who have that same exact feeling but too phony to admit and decided to dammed you for their sins.

Answer 2

It never seemed fair to have a cute cousin, u end up becoming kissing cousins and then ur told u can't have sex with them because if u end up pregrant u may have a three head baby =-)

I remember having the hots for a cousin he was so FINE, I went as far as saying I wanted him to be my first( he wasn't)

But I guess in every family we have a cousin we have the hots for but the best I can tell ya is to please just kiss with ur cousin and don't go any farther or u may end up on The Jerry Springer Show with a three headed baby with one leg. =-)

Answer 3

Its genetically bad because the main reason one shouldnt reproduce with their family is because of the MUCH higher risk of getting a genetic disease, because you guys both possibly carry a gene for a genetic disorder which you have a low likelihood of finding in someone outside of your gene pool, and also its frowned upon by society.
I say love has no boundaries and if you guys really love each other dont let other peoples opinions stop you.

Answer 4

Society looks down negatively on this scenario. However, science has proven that there is virtually no additional risk of birth defects when 2nd cousins marry; however, the incidence of 1st cousins marrying increases this somewhat and that is why it is illegal in most places.

Answer 5

That's pretty bad. For many obvious reasons. If you have to ask with negative connotation you must know you are wrong. There are plenty of guys out there who are hot, and who are not your cousin. You will find someone else!!!

Answer 6

it's depending where the cousin come from, if there is blood, you can have slope head children. I have a cousin that isn't really cousin that we call a cousin (no I have never had sex with her, I only bring this up to indicate that sometimes cousins aren't really cousins) her blood aunt was married to my blood uncle but there is no blood between us. just don't tell people you are screwing your cousin, it doesn't sound right.

Answer 7

It depends on how closely you are related. If you are distant cousins society would frown a little but it would be accepted. If you are first cousins it is considered incest.

Answer 8

Bad. Doing something about your attraction is illegal in some states in the USA. Control yourself and find someone to love on who is not your relative.

Answer 9

you can't help who you are attracted to, but it isn't exactly socially acceptable. Does he want you back?? If it's a fantasy, then have your fantasy and keep it to yourself. If it's a mutual thing, then you guys may have a serious problem. Your families are not going to like it. Good luck

Answer 10

as long as hes not a biological cousin, noone minds. i mean if you breed with a bio cuz then you might wind up with severally mentally handicapped children. tie your tubes if hes related biologically and if you cannot control your desires. btw cousins legally cannot marry in most states. i think its gross for bio cousins to be a couple.