i know that i have to break up with my bf sooner or later, but i cant.. b/c i am in luv. wat should i do?

Question

my family dosent like him, my friends dont like him, and he is really not for me, a great guy but not for me. i just cant break it tho, i think i care 2 much about him and i will miss him once he is gone. been going out for 7 months. i feel really bad about it, so torn in 2 directions. I feel like crying and something inside of me dying when i try to break it, but cant do it. but im also constantly thinking about how and when to end it. ... = ( feel so bad

Answer 1

Is there any chance that you are confusing friendship with love? You may care for him alot and certain that you will miss him because he has been a part of your life for several months now. You have a soft spot for him, that's why you feel torn and like crying. That is your heart speaking. But in your mind, you know that "he is really not for you." Delaying something you know is imminent will only prolong and intensify the agony. Do what you know you must, coz not taking action now would be unfair to him too. If you are sure about it, be firm, but be gentle as well. Who knows, you might end up as good friends.

Answer 2

If you are certain that the relationship has to end the longer that you drag it out the harder that it is going to be and the more damage you could do to him. It is going to hurt to tell him but let him you can not do ti anymore, and it would be best to give him a reason that don't shatter his confidence (remember he could take the baggage from this relationship with him in the future so be careful and don't kill his self confidence).

Answer 3

Thanks for answering my question!! Now why do you have to break up with your boyfriend? If it is because of something stupid then talk it over but of it is something that you can't bare to leave alone than you just have to do what is made to do. SORRY!!

Answer 4

why would you break up with him if you love him??? is there something wrong with your relationship????