Would you be mad??

Question

I've been in bed sick all day. I was in a bad mood and my b/f suggested I take a nap, cuz he just got off work. So I didn't but I talked to him for the next couple hours. Then I beeped (cell phone) him b/c I was expecting him to come see me since Im sick. He was over at this girls house with like 12 other people showing his tattoo that I paid for instead of coming to see his sick g/f. Then he was like well I will leave and come see you. At that point I was like you know what just stay there. (He stayed over there and turned his phone off) Girls would you be pissed? Guys would you go hang out with some bitches or go see your sick g/f?

Answer 1

i would be mad at first but get over it quikly...he has a life too and i wouldnt want him to hate me just because i wont let him hang out with a bunch of friends while im sick....of course the girls there would get me nervous but if he was really a true bf then he wouldnt do anything with them.....but he SHOULD see u ALOT while u are sick and if he hasnt before the party then yes i would be pissed

Answer 2

I'm not a guy but im a girl an if im telling my fiancee that im sick an he doesn't think enough of me to come an see about me when im sick he would rather be hanging out with another girl an then turns his phone off he's trippin an then you paid for him to get a tattoo you love him so he should show the same love don't you think? when he does call i wouldn't even answer the phone when he calls right away let him know he hurt you an you just don't go running when he calls

Answer 3

As a guy, i think that it was wrong of him to go "flirting" with other girls while you are sick in bed, and he hasn't seen you all day. If it was me, the moment i found out you were sick, and got off of work, i would have been at your bedside tending to you and seeing if you needed anything. I would be at your beck and call, not going around and hanging out with other girls. That is not the style of a truely loving and caring boyfriend. If the tables were turned, i am sure that he would get mad at you for the same thing, so he should not do such a thing to you. He definately should have come to see you.

Answer 4

He should have come and saw you. Offered to make you something to eat if even chicken broth. I guess I am older now and I see the mistakes I made when I was immature. We men really do not always see the small things that help keep us in relationships and sometimes we do not appreciate what we have when it is staring at us in the face. I am sure if you are even asking this question that you may have already taken care of him when he was ill so he should know better.

Answer 5

I hate to be overly simplistic here, but yes he should have been by your side when you were sick, but you shouldn't have told him to stay. Women often make the mistake, that Men can tell what they are thinking by the tone of your voice or if in person by body language. The problem is most can't. So next time say what you mean and mean what you say. Good Luck.

Answer 6

yes he should have visited you but you shouldn't have told him to just stay. because he has an excuse now to throw it back in your face. So in reality by doing what he did, is an actual and open hint telling you he's tired of you and wants to be with other women. Better find you someone sincere or you'll be crying the blues for real.

Answer 7

You see, that's what's wrong with women. You play these mind games expecting men to understand what you really mean. HELLO !!! We men are stupid, we think with our smaller head, not the bigger one.

At some point earlier, you probably told him "oh, don't come over because I'm sick." You said this expecting him to come over and show that he cares... he took it literally and thought "cool, time to chill at Taz's place." If you want him over, ask him over. If you tell him not to, then expect him not to...

Shish, some women...

Answer 8

Heck yeah Id be mad. Plus he turned off the phone? I dont know about you but Id go off on his punk ***. Guys are weird though he doesnt think hes done anything wrong (seriously). I say give it a week

Answer 9

Not all guys are that rude there are other fish in the sea for you too see. I would stay with my girl. You should find another guy and I wouldn't be mad at all. To me that is a no brainer.

Answer 10

Well, you told him to stay. Guys don't like it when girls do that. For example, I know guys who get mad because girls will tell them not to buy them anythang for their anniversary, and when their anniversary comes up, the guy buys them nothang, so the female gets mad. Girl, do what I do, jus be real. I would try not be mad considering if I told the guy to stay, it's my fault. Hey, give some credit to the guy for listening.