Many guys describe themselves on their personals profiles as cuddly, touch feely kind of guys, public displays of affection. Do they do this just to describe themselves or does it indicate a overly anxios desire to get physical with someone new? I just think saying stuff like that to someone you haven't met sets up a stage of akwardness for the other person. Am I right or wrong? If I expect committment before sex, should I date a touch feely type guy?
2006-06-21 14:30:02 · 2 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the correct phrase is "touchy-feely" and I would avoid someone who uses it as it suggests he intends to start getting physical early on. "Cuddly" is ok but it makes me think, rightly or wrongly, he's chubby. "Public displays of affection" is an odd one. Does it mean he holds your car door open or holds your hand, or does it mean that he wants to french kiss in public? It seems inappropriate.
2006-06-23 13:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience while dating over the years, guys who say that are a little sociopathic, they think that is what we want or want to hear. What they are really saying is that they will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. Ick.
2006-06-21 21:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋