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please do not disclose this secret . i have a job interview in which there is a gynacologycal test . i will be accompanied with my parents . i belong to a very orthodox family ,and they will be devastated if they come to know.please help me this a very urgent need please help

2006-06-21 14:12:17 · 15 answers · asked by reetika 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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what kind of job are you getting that requires a gyno exam??!!?? I would seriously rethink your choice of employment!!!

2006-06-21 14:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 1 0

The soreness not in any respect is going away.... and that i comprehend it hurts... someone very close to and intense priced to me had an abortion and nevertheless regrets it to on the present time, and that i dont blame her... that is the own individual's fault for paying for pregnant that early contained in the first position, even if do not enable that spoil your life. imagine about the sturdy issues which will come out of your new toddler Jasmine. i'm soo satisfied for you. You shouldnt save searching back on that, yet truly on what sturdy is yet to go back. even as previous scars not in any respect heal, and are confusing to get over, there is always a time for brand new love, and when you've that toddler, the soreness will shrink. My mom says having somewhat one is a tremendous element, and when you've one you journey a love like none different, cherish Jasmine, and purely comprehend that the different toddler rests in peace understanding you didnt provide this one up. ^^

2016-10-20 11:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by speth 4 · 0 0

First of all, I can't imagine WHAT kind of job interview would include a gyno exam! But, that aside, I don't know of any actual TEST that can disclose your secret, but certain changes in your uterus and/or cervix may be noted... a cervix that has never been dilated has a different quality and tone that one that has.
Just a note: in the future, if you become pregnanat and want to carry to term, it will be EXTREMELY important for you to disclose your past experience to your physician, because certain diseases, risks, etc can increase with each pregnancy, whether or not they were full term.

2006-06-21 14:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Priscilla H 1 · 0 0

Well Sweet Heart,
I don't know of any job that ask you for that kind of test STRANGE How old are you ? R U shur ? You want a job like this? You may want to think about that. I WORK IN A DOCTORS OFFICE PART TIME. I have never herd of any kind of job the ask you to invade your privacy. Do You live in the us. there is a law, That the doctor can't tell your family anything. He needs to talk to you. and U only. There WILL be a nurse in the room while the doctor is doing this. so you may not even want your parents in the room with you. You'll have a nurse there , You also may want to call before going to this doctor and let them know about what you have done. this is between you and the doctor. you'll be in my prayes tonight ... Best of luck.
if you need to talk to someone on this . Feel FREE to contact me
Lets all have hope for you ? My best advice for you is to contact the doctor Do it A.S.A.P.

2006-06-21 14:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy D 2 · 0 0

I bet the only thing that they are going to do is give you a pap. test. all they do is cotton swab your insides and give you a breast exam. I don't think they will do anything to find out if you have been preg.
You can also call the place where you had the abortion done and ask them if an exam will show an abortion. They might be able to really help. Good Luck.

2006-06-21 14:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by NS42day 4 · 0 0

Basically, if the Dr tells your parents you had an abortion - just deny it and or talk to the Dr and tell him that you will talk to a lawwyer and sue him if discloses certain personal information to certain people... If that fails say that you have a problem with masurbation and are obsessed with a certain toy that is your pride and joy.. Remember, its your body - if you feel like playing with it you have every right in this world!

2006-06-21 14:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by johncharlesrealty 2 · 0 0

I am so sorry to say this, but I do believe that a doctor can tell if you have had an abortion. This should be confidential between you and the doctor. Your parents aren't in a need to know about it. Are you in the US?? If so, that info is secret. They can't tell your parents. If you are outside the US, then I don't know....the best of luck to you sweetheart.

2006-06-21 14:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by nick031297 3 · 0 0

Unfortunately sometimes Abortions leave scars that are highly visible. Your parents will love you no matter what. I know you're afraid but would you rather they found out because you told them or because a doctor asks and you have to tell the truth? Be brave, while some may condem you I am sure you had your reasons. Please don't be afraid. My prayers are with you.

2006-06-21 14:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by static_tabbie 2 · 0 0

First the only job I think that would need that information is an escort service or porn movies.
Now as far as a test , no there is no test that shows that, but it can be possible that there may be some scares in the uterus.

2006-06-21 15:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by Crooky 1 · 0 0

YOUR BRINGING YOUR PARENTS TO YOUR JOB INTERVIEW GYNOLOGICAL EXAM??? IS THE JOB REALLY WORTH IT?? LOL. BUT ANY HOW, YOU CAN CALL THE CLINIC WHERE YOU WILL BE GETTING THE CHECK DONE AND FOR WARN THEM OF THE SITUATION OF THE ABORTION AND HAVE THEM MAKE NOTE NOT TO MENTION ANYTHING WHEN YOU ARE IN THERE OR ON THEIR FOLLOW UP RESULTS TO YOU. THEIR IS A PRIVACY LAW THAT WILL PROTECT YOU. THEY HAVE TO ABIDE BY YOUR REQUEST. YES THEY CAN TELL IF THERE ARE SCARS ON THE CERVIX. call ahead of time though!!! you will be just fine, and hope you get the job.

2006-06-21 18:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by mrsbeisner 2 · 0 0

If you were pregnant again, you need to tell your doctor, it's important that they know this imformation, previous abortions can lead to miscarriages!
I'm not sure if they could tell, but what kind of job interview requires an internal exam???
Weird!

2006-06-21 14:15:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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