how do i ask a guy out, without embarassing anyone?

Answer 1

If you like him who cares what other people think. Do what YOU want, not what others want or think. Worrying about what others think will just stress out your life.

Answer 2

it would be best if u let him do the asking but this day in age girls will do it to. get him into a private corner of the public place or any where private. and take up some courage and ask him. Guys dont really like it when girls send someone else to do the asking it makes the girl look very desperate and sort of wimpy. if he says no then just tell him to not repeat the words said ( he wont) but im sure he will say yes. very sure for that matter. it helps if you just push yourself do it it b4 he ge someone else

Answer 3

Uh. You walk up to him and ask him if he wants to go see a movie or something. You won't embarrass anybody. The only thing that's embarrassing is when you get rejected. That sucks. But, just ask the guy you like out and don't worry too much about what he might say. You have to have confidence in yourself. Good luck.

Answer 4

Start simple. Meet him for lunch or coffee. If you're in school, invite him to sit with you during lunch, or study together. If you hit it off, then ask him to go to someplace else - a movie, the mall, whatever. If you don't hit it off, you haven't embarassed either one of you.

Answer 5

I really do wish girls would ask more guys out.

It seems like it's always the guy doing it.

Just ask him when your with him. Call him on the phone, send a text, that's hot.

Answer 6

I think girls have a harder time asking guys out then guys do asking girls out. cause with guys asking girls out its like if it doesnt work out its not really a big deal but if a girl askes a guy out. she has the problem of the guys friends laughing and making fun of her and I know for sure they will hold that against you.

but asking someone out femal or male is hard. just take things slow. get to know the person a little bit. see if this is the person you really want to be going out with. hangout with him at school and out of school. have some group things so you dont have to feel things getting wierd. go to the movies, the beach, sea world, the zoo, a little get together party. anything to make it feel fun but feel calm and cool. so you dont feel like everything is on you.

just have fun. dont take anything fast. thats the last thing you want to do. just take things slow and have fun with it. and remember be yourself. and if he doesnt like you for you. then his an ***. and not worth your time.

have fun see what you like and what you dont like. this guy might just be puppy love.

hope that helped a little

take care
ale

Answer 7

its allways a good idea to see if he likes you, or has a gf, or has even noticed you b4. notes and letters are allways cute, or like somebody else said do it when its just u and him. ya know, you could even have a friend talk to him for you. especially if you no somebody thats good friends with both you and him, u could probably talk to that person about him. (i no what ur going through.) good luck!

Answer 8

it's easy.. walk up to the guy when he is not surrounded by tons of people.. and ask him out... better to just flirt a lot.. and then he'll ask you out probably because it is the norm for guys more..

Answer 9

Ask him in private or write a letter saying that but, don't say your name.

Example: love,
Your secret admirer

tell him in your letter to give it to someone and they give it back to you in private.

Answer 10

call him up, or talk to him face to face.

bring up movies you want to see or something you want to do on your first date, like going to the park or something.

don't ask him like "wanna go out" that freaks them out apparently... im gonna use an example of what you should do!:

you) have you seen.... (movie title here) i heard it sounds really good!
him) no i haven't seen it.. it does sound good, though.
you) we should see it together!
him) *his reaction.*

it worked for me and i hope it works for you!! good luck!!