I am in my early 30's but I have never been with anyone before. I didn't even know how to reach orgasm until he touched me. I think he is rough when he touches me down there. But I prush it off by telling him that it's tickling but actually it hurts. He was kinda worried when I told him one time that it hurts. He is worried that I might have difficutlties in making love when we get married. Is there something wrong with me?
2006-06-21 13:57:55 · 24 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, its only because your vagina is really tight because you havent been fingered/ had sex before. your hymen probably hasnt broken yet either. it probably doesn't help matters if he uses more than 1 or 2 fingers, or if you aren't moist/ lubricated down there. if you aren't wet then you aren't turned on enough so you need to kiss and get touchy feely first. start off with 1 finger til you get used to that... then use 2 until that stops hurting... and so on. tell him to go GENTLY and the more you do it, the looser your vagina will become and the less painful it will be :)
2006-06-21 14:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is something wrong with you. You are 30's and never been with anyone for starters. Your waiting to "make love" when your married number two. Whats the difference in him fingering you and him riding you like a horse all night? YOUR man probably has as little experience as you do therefore he doesn't have a clue what he is doing. He needs to stimulate your ....... in a way that gives enough pressure and smoothness that you can reach climax without hurting you. Why don't you just explore and enjoy each other and not get so hung up on marriage and "saving yourself like a good little girl" for Gods sake your 30 something. The sex life and everything in the bedroom isn't going to miraculously be perfect once the vows are said and your living together. Especially if you both are inexperienced. Good luck sorry if I came off too frank but your question was that way too.
2006-06-21 14:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really cant say but I have heard that some girls can be a little more sensitive then most but I have heard it more and more lately. I would go to the doctor just to be safe there is no reason to have to suffer needlessly. however I do wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-21 14:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The parts inside the vagina are sensitve, especially the clitoris, the counterpart of the glans of the penis for the male. I think that he was rough handed. If you are still concerned about this matter, talk it over with your doctor.
2006-06-21 14:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin it could be a lot of things...from the above mentioned fingernails to a lack of lubrication on your part.
I suggest you go visit your gyn and tell her/him the problem. Trust me...the doc won't turn red with embarrassment.
2006-06-21 14:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ghost of War 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you Wait the thicker your cherry gets
2006-06-21 14:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 02:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in it for his pleasure. If you want something out of it be honest and tell him the truth.
2006-06-21 14:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Maybe he needs to clip his nails. Also, I would hope he's not jabbing it in there. Tell him to be a little gentler.
2006-06-21 14:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first you have to be honest and tell him that it hurts, let him know how you want it to be done guide him if you can you have to do it verry slowly till you get used to it.
2006-06-21 14:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋