ok my EX-boyfriend ...me and him were cool after we had broken up after 8 months in april.. almost 2 months later he is still MAJORLY attached...still calling me baby and telling me he loves me and s*hit like that....so i kept telling him that he needed to stop and he said ok i will stop yet he had never stoped..i felt that i was still in a relationship that to me was dead...so today... just now...he asked me if i felt that i still had a boyfriend and i said yes and explained to him why...and like always..the s*hit that i say to him went into one ear and straight out the other....so i just told him to stop talking to me altogether..... i mean i am getting really tired of having him being stuck on me like a freakin leach...its so annoying..but anyway IS THIS MEAN?
oh yea and the reason why we broke up is because he kept on messing with his ex girlfriend...he couldnt let go of her either....plus i the relationship was slowly but surly dieing..
tell me yalls opinion?
2006-06-21 13:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by donnishah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you tried to be nice to him, but he takes that for granted.
and now you have to be straight and firm and let him know this is what you want. and dont talk after you tell him this. if you already told him this. good. now forget him so he can forget you.
not being mean, being truthful and honest about how you feel.
2006-06-21 14:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have done the right thing in asking him to not talk to you at all, he obviously has issues with seperation and mayby he likes to have his cake and eat it too.
You are better off without him causing you the problem he is move on with you life good luck.
2006-06-21 21:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its mean but apparently not mean enough because he still hasn't got a freakin clue
2006-06-21 21:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by cowboylogic26282 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Mean would be doing what I did when I was that age. I let him keep taking me out, spending money on me, thinking he was going to score, and then shutting him down every time. I would still have boyfriends, but in between he and I would see one another, but I just wanted to hang out, he still thought something was going on, but I don't know why because I never did anything physical with him. He tried but I was all set.
This went on until I met my husband, and he introduced us.... wow!
2006-06-21 21:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by NoWayOut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH NO.........NOT MEAN.......
you should tell him "sorry but I respect myself and we are through.......too bad you didn't know what you had till it was gone....."
there is too much out here to catch to be letting some punk toy with you...........good job on kicking him to the curb.........don't pick another lowsy guy like him though.......life is too short to be dealing with that......besides you are to young to be catching AIDS/HIV or Herpes.................
2006-06-21 21:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by RaeRae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get nicked
2006-06-21 21:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congradulations you have a guy with STALKER SYNDROME!!!!! Kick him in the balls, he'll leave ya alone....
2006-06-21 21:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by elyriapudding 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋