me and my boi friend we so happy and in love and today i called him and he was at another girls house he screamed he would call me later and hung up i cried all day and he called saying he wanted to break up and never talk to me again and he didnt want to talk about why........ what did i do i sitting here balling tears are all over the keyboard im sooo upset. help me get over this please and dont just say there and more peopel out there ull get over it i want Real help and comfort
2006-06-21 13:47:41 · 12 answers · asked by Taylor G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel your pain. honestly, i had an unexpected break up just a few months ago. i was crushed. the best thing to do is to not be by yourself. surround yourself with your friends. try to get yourself out of your house and doing things. the worst thing you can do is to sit alone and think about it.
once you are feeling a little better, then you can start to think about why it may have happened and if theres anything you can do to fix it. from what it sounds like, its not your fault so dont get down on yourself about it.
time heals all wounds. i know it hurts now, but i promise, it will get better.
my best.
stephanie
2006-06-21 13:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by cornflake_gurl_1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
aww honey he ain't worth it. don't cry over him he must be a jerk. i know that you thought you were in love but if he was at another girls house, it must have been only you in love. just remember that he is a jerk and an a$$hole. the sad thing about this is that i know a saying that would probably go with you: what do you do when the one that made you cry is the only one that can stop your tears?? i know you don't want us to say there are more people out there, but you gotta remember that there ARE other people out there. i know it may seem very traumatic right now and you will be sad for a while, most likely. but you gotta try to get over it. live a little more, honey, hes not worth your tears....
2006-06-21 13:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, sweetie. You don't deserve to be treated like that AT ALL! I know everyone's going to say this, but he's a jerk and not worth it! If he's going to cheat and then have no explanation, then he's not a good boy friend, and you'd be a lot better off with someone else.
For now, do anything to take your mind off him. If you have a pool, go swimming. It always makes me feel better. Whatever you do, don't listen to sad music and bawl your eyes out. It's not going to make you feel any better.
Go hang with friends. You may not want to, now, but you'll have fun doing it.
JUST TRY NOT TO DWELL ON IT!
2006-06-21 13:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like a piece of work. make a list of all of the bad things he's done to you and all of the qualities you hate aout him. anytime you feel sad about about the break up - review the list. you deserve someone who can treat you with respect.
smile -- it will only get better after today... and it may be cliche but there are better guys out there.
2006-06-21 13:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably call him up again and ask him what he was doing at the girls house in the first place?...then ask who the girl is?...then ask him why & or what made him do this to you?
if you feel like you reallly need to talk to someone then you can e-mail me if you would like but your ex-boyfriend sounds like a total jerk and if he ends up running back to you im afraid you are just going to have to say no inless you want to get hurt again!
2006-06-21 13:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by jillian♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you need to leave him alone! He tried to flip the role by getting mad at you because you caught him in the act. you can do better just take it one day at a time! don't answer any of his calls either
2006-06-21 13:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do any thing wrong it sounds like he is a pig. All he wanted is for you to put out. And you didn't. GOOD FOR YOU! don't cry over him. It is his lose. You will be okay hang in there.
2006-06-21 13:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by r.n.b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a not just his girlfriend you are a person and you deserve respect from your man! If you are not happy, and it will be hard, then just go and be happy somewhere else. You do deserve better!
2006-06-21 13:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok just calm down take deep breaths he made a huge mistake and you shouldnt worry about what he has done there are better ppl out there and no that he did wrong not u
2006-06-21 13:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by phil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...go hang out with your friends and first talk about how awesome he is.
Then talk about how awful he is...
Then talk about how you understand how he has his moments and they just made the relationship (while it was on) forever interesting.
Then ponder about the hilarious stories can come out this..
Like how you used to smother him in his sleep cause he was snoring and by the sixth month something clicked in his head that said SNORE AND DIE!
2006-06-21 13:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by blackdahliagrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋