i was just wondering,cause i heard it that it is satisifying. Also to know how it feels before marriage, so u know what to expect.
2006-06-21 13:44:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its better after your married because what if you have a baby. If your married then you dont have to worry as much like knowing the father or anything (Unless you cheat)
2006-06-21 13:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Shearson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is better after marriage. Only because love is part of sex and that was God's intention. In marriage, sex is performed without any guilt and fear attached. Not so before marriage. Before there is danger of pregnancy. The female getting pregnant and the possiblity of abortion which has psychological and moral consequences especially if the father doesn't want the baby.
Abstinence is best. It sounds old fashioned but so what. Save yourself for someone who loves you and sex is that expression of love. Any guy can say he loves you and lie to get sex . And women usually gives in not because they want sex, but because they want to please the guy and desire love.
If an attractive woman goes into a bar and whispers to10 different men if they want to get it on, what do you think the guys will say. If a guy walks in and asks 10 women what would their reaction be ?
We know the answer. The guys will have sex for sex sake. Women usually want love. Your choice.
But if he truly does love you then he would marry you and then you are giving yourself to someone who wants to spend the rest of his life with you is the best. Otherwise you open yourself to being
hurt . Love grows into sex. Sex doesn't grow into love.
You don't need to experiment. It feels great but only if love is part of it.
2006-06-21 21:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by mrgogee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl I am hypocrytical but I did it before marriage and there isn't a day I don't regret it. I know wish I had waited because I would have shared that with my wife and the most important person in my life. I'm not married so I don't know my wife but I love her anyhow.
2006-06-21 20:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before, unfortunately. I am not married, but I'm around many married people, and they screw MUCH less often after marraige. I find that sad. Unfortunatly, people grow tired of eachother. I also think that it doesn't have to be that way, but I'm not there yet, so can't tell you how.
And what the heck? People can't have sex before they're married! It's like illegal or something! Does God know about this?
2006-06-21 20:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Brianman3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is sex after marriage ?? I wish someone would have told that to my ex-wife
2006-06-21 22:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by cowboylogic26282 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real answer is after marriage because u reall don't want 2 have a baby out of wed-lock.
2006-06-21 20:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before cuz after marriage it does not exist
2006-06-21 20:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before it is better physically, but mentally it is better after.
2006-06-21 20:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by sultry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is better the more you do it with the same partner if your not married or if you are married
2006-06-21 20:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is good any time of day or nite. and always better after mariage
2006-06-21 21:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by stocktonlodiblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋