Advice for me?

Question

Um okay i think i love my friend i have seen him but have not seen him in a well is it okay to love him, if we just talk on the phone like everday .


GOD bless you.

Ive known him for 3 years but got to REALLY know him this year.

Answer 1

its ok to love anyone.

love is kind of a funny thing. you aren't in control of who you love. and you are in even less control of who loves you back.

but, there are also different levels of love. you can love your family and friends one way, and your boyfriend/girlfriend a different way. and it is an entirely different thing completely to be in love with someone, because it would involve 2 people loving eachother in the same way and wanting to share that with eachother.

love freely. the world needs more of it.

Answer 2

well, it's okay, i suppose, but it'll be tough to have a long distance relationship. You should ask yourself if this is truly the one you want right now. I mean, would you be willing to turn down every sexy guy that walks up to you in exchange to say that this friend of yours, whom you never see, is your boyfreind? I have been there before, having a girlfreind states away, and it's torture, and eventually I just give up and respectfully break it off with her. Also, you'd have to trust him a lot, so you don't worry about him running around with other girls. also, if you've never met him in person, the answer is absolutely not, because a phone personality is very different than the same person's real personality. Trust me. If you have met him, still I'd have to say you should not devote yourself to him, but if you really believe he is the one, there is nothing wrong with it. It's your choice, but you'll have to deal with the consequences as well. There is nothing wrong with how you feel though. It's just risky what you may do about it.

Answer 3

Face to face is the best way to make that kind of decision.
Sometimes we like the attention.
Just as like on the Internet , people on the phone can say and be what they want , but face to face , may not be who you think they are.
So instead of being in love.
Be sensible.

Answer 4

It really depends on how long you've known this guy.I would just let things progress naturally.Rushing into things is a big mistake.Talk for a long time,get to know each other real well you may feel differently later on.If you don't then tell him how you feel.Make certain it isn't a crush.

Answer 5

yes sweety, its alright to talk on the phone. its alright to talk using any medium of communication, as long as u keep talkin :P. u know what u can do, just ask him casually, that whether he would like to have lunch with u. im sure that he would agree to it. meet up at some local restaurant. sit and have a nice chat face to face. talk about stuff. ask questions about him. all u have to do is think of having a nice time with him. he will like it to. i assure u :)

Answer 6

i think this is more of a crush but if u feel u love him tell him how u feel see what he says if dont want to come st8 out and say it hint around it and see if he catches on

Answer 7

good luck and yes my guy is in the army and hes stationed 12 hours away now and we talk everyday, but he also cheats on me

Answer 8

do u REALLY LOVE him or do u just like him alot because like and love are 2 difrent things
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goood luck

Answer 9

Yes, but you should evnetually do more than talk on the phone, with him.

Answer 10

yea its ok...u should know him more by talkin to him but make sure u really know him before u get hurt