my boyfriend dumped me because hes moving away (3 provinces over) and hes working so frequently he rarely gets to see me. opur relationship was fine till he finly found out hes moving soon, and hes so busy he dosnt see me. does he still love me? will i get him back? last time he moves 5 provinces over he moved back after talking every night and and racking upo a phone bill and we got together again...will history repeat himself/...are we ment to be toghether? i love him so much.
2006-06-21 13:27:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
saw him today, things went well. turns out i was worried for no reasin...were not together but as he said hes only gon for a yearaand hell be back seeing me again, and knowing him, hell be muine again.
2006-06-22 13:22:41 · update #1
I dont understand why people are saying no.. its not like he moved away cause he doesnt love you right? he dumped you cause hes moving... If thats the case then try to make it work!! nothing wrong with giving it a shot... I lived over an hour away from my bf and we made it work until last november whe nwe decided to move in together... Just becuase he is busy doesnt mean that he doesnt think about you.. And if you remained together in the past.. you already kno what will happen emotional wise.. Yeah your phone bill might get a bit higher... If thats the case, switch phone plans or talk online (voice chat is the way to go baby!).. if you really love him.. tell him you dont want to break up and that you still wanna be with him even tho he is a bit far off.. If your willing to put that much into it the first time... why give up now! he might be the one!
2006-06-21 13:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by thekutekitty 1 · 9⤊ 7⤋
Hello,
I have to say that I know what you're feeling. Long distance relationships do take thier toll. Some make it ,most don't.
In my opinion, I know easier said than done, but treat this as a test of the strength of your relationship.
As to your question if he still loves you, THAT only you and he know.I feel though that if you're questioning the love & relationship now,it may already be headed downhill.
Wish you all the best
2006-06-21 13:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by moonstruck_ru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please!!! Look, he's doing you a favor, honey, and you don't even realize it. OK...mourn about lost love; and then get on with your life. You'll find another boyfriend before you know it. You're WAYYYYYYY to immature for any kind of "relationship". Get a diary so you can write it all down and then....get over it! That's what he's doing.
2006-06-21 13:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being careless with your heart... he's hurting you, right? Decide if your desire for him is more important than the pain he is causing you. If it is, then fight for him, but expect a let down. You may not being able to change his mind. Why stay with him if he doesn't want you?
If you are tired of the pain, get angry that he was the one who caused it and don't let it happen again... with him.
Healing will take time.
2006-06-21 13:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by trish459 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-12 08:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone else. If he leaves you then comes back to you over and over. Then he doesn't love you he is going to keep playin with your feelin's.
2006-06-21 13:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by jazjadaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to find out if he still loves you is simply to ask him.
as far as whether you will get back together and if history will repeat itself. its possible, but probably unlikely.
when it all comes down to it, what will happen will happen. true love conquers all.
2006-06-21 13:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by cornflake_gurl_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have been through alot in the relationship. it does sound one sided. that yr putting in alot of love and effort and he is not at that level with you. might be better to let go. you cant force someone to love you just as much.
2006-06-21 13:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really up to him, if you love him so much and he feels the same then probably eventually you can pick up somewhere, even way before the beginning
2006-06-21 13:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he love u but i know how u feel myboyfrend moved away form me but i love him still and he loves me too but i had a dream that he was by my side then one min i saw him by my side and he was so do worry that much he still loves u ok belive me hope u good luck lol.
2006-06-21 13:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋