There is this guy at my school. He can't stop talking to other people about me. It doesn't matter if it is his friends or even the most popular girls at my school, he can't stop talking or thinking about me. I used to like him. I mean we are friends. But I don't want to ruin our friendship or break his heart or anything. My two friends became BF/GF and then they just wanted to be friends and It ruiened their friendship. We have gone on a date before. What if he askes me to be his girlfriend? Couold give me advice?
2006-06-21 13:20:23 · 14 answers · asked by Werido3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One way of doing it without being direct is to start talking about someone you like. Let it be known that you are interested in someone else. If his your true friend his going to continue been your friend. If he just wants you as a gf then he will end up backing away. I have the same realantionship with one of my friend. He is in love with me and i was honest and told him it could never be between us and that i'm in love with someone else. Till this day we continue to be close friends and he has accepted the fact that there isn't a chance between us.
Best of luck.
2006-06-21 13:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, the best thing to do is be honest with him. Talk to him and tell him that you wouldn't like to ruin what you guys have as friends. If he really cares about you that much, he'll understand and maybe even let you go. Don't be too harsh though. Wish you luck!
2006-06-21 20:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by BtTrFy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just cant let anything happen if you break up you need to stay friends with him no matter what i mean i want out with the same girl five times and we're stilll best friends if you like him go out with him and stay friends with him always
good luck
2006-06-21 20:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by phil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has a big crush on you. I wouldn't worry to much about it until he does ask you out. When he does, just be honest with him and tell him you don't feel that way about him and just want to be friends.
2006-06-21 20:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly9k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can, but not now, at this age of school studies. It is certainly infatuation. U can, when u start standing on your legs, I mean, after started earning, i.e., not taking money from your dad's pocket
2006-06-21 20:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by smart doubts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would go with it and run and be his gf. Being friends is the most important thing in a relationship.
2006-06-21 20:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I could give you some advice, find some real problems to worry about.
2006-06-21 20:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by jljdc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont want your friendship to be ruined if something was to ever go wrong.
2006-06-21 20:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by NHR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ask you out be straight forward with him and let him know how you feel and dont lie to him
2006-06-21 20:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by msmelissahernandez28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u would liike for him to stop talking about u
2006-06-21 20:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by sexyshaquanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋