please give me tips to heal this... my heart broken into pieces... please help :(
2006-06-21 13:06:31 · 6 answers · asked by LoveIsUnpredictable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing anyone can to make the hurt go away.it takes time,i was with this guy and he told me he loved me then he just droped out of my life no reason no goodbye,just gone it hurt like hell ,its been 9 months it still hurts.but time has eased it alittle,i still miss him but you know what if he was to call me know i would not talk to him .you will get through this i promise
2006-06-21 13:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry and know you are not alone! i agree with much of the advice you already have gotten. time heals all wounds. it takes time! also, a good support system of friends and family who are patient with you. when your heart is broken you lose a lot of yourself. you cannot forget about yourself! you must go on. you must persevere and you must try to move on with your life! there are lots of people out there, good and bad, and with each experience, you learn and grow and even change because of it. you must let go of all personal belongings, email, phone, pictures, etc. as well. and finally, above all else, love yourself before loving anyone else. do not let someone take from you your dignity, pride or emotions! and if you are bitter and angry, thats okay, however, you must put a limit on that because when your bitter and angry, your heart cannot receive, and you must be open to receive love in the future! take care and good luck, talking to someone here with a broken heart!
2006-06-21 13:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by wysiwyg_f_40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go back to the person you betrayed, even if it means moving back some where. You can think about someone new, you haven't met yet. You could meet someone new. Assure yourself, that you will eventually find someone new. Also that you couldn't help betraying the best partner for you, even though it was wrong, to do it! In the mean time, throw away that person's photos and listen to some soothing instrumental music.
2006-06-21 13:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of time. Give yourself time to cry. Don't be hard on yourself. Give yourself a bit of time each day to think about them and let it all out, the rest of the day try to get on with your life. Lean on people in your life for support.
2006-06-21 13:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remove them from your mind.. and anything that reminds you of them... im sorry that your hurting but you should be fine in a while! get out and find a new person to love... good luck.
2006-06-21 13:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write all that you feel in poetry then mail it to him.
2006-06-21 13:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋