2006-06-21 12:59:53 · 18 answers · asked by alley p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, there's nothing wrong at all. For as long as you are being nice to him/her that's in fact a very admirable trait. It's not going to be easy for you though, you would have a hard time adjusting and getting along with that person coz in the first place you don't like him/her. Why then would you still go out with him/her? Just make friends for the right reasons. And don't just give him false hope, go out for friendship sake but be sure you set thing straight from the very start.
2006-06-21 15:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by marguerite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say 'go out', do you mean just a date, or 'seeing each other'? I think that if you just don't like him enough to consider him as a boyfriend, you could leave it up to him. You could say, 'I'll go out with you on a date, since you've invited me, but you have to understand that I don't want anything more than friendship with you. Do you still want to go?'
Now, of course if you think he's dishonorable - likely to molest you or lie to you about whether he's dating other people, etc. (or especially if he's already done this kind of thing to you - then you would be justified in just saying no.
May God give you the wisdom to know how to proceed.
2006-06-21 13:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally wrong because you are taking advantage of his liking you, in order to get some free entertainment.
The possibility that you may like him after all, is only an excuse. If the chemistry is not there, it is not there.
2006-06-21 13:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is!!If you only say yes because you want to make them happy then don't do it.You are just going to make them get hurt really bad. They will have feelings for you and you won't and it will be just a big mess. Just wait until the right guy comes along.
2006-06-21 13:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its wrong to go out with someone you dont like.....If he likes you its just leading him in the wrong direction ...he might think you like him if you go out with him. good luck
2006-06-21 13:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well if you dont like them you shouldnt go out with them its not wrong but its not good to do that for the futrue you may like him but if you have such a strong hatred then no just dont go out with him
2006-06-21 13:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by phil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is only wrong if the person u go out with LIKES u. if he doesnt like you then it really isnt wrong
2006-06-21 13:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it, but the relationship is sort of pointless, don't ya think?
2006-06-21 13:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong because you are just leading them on.
2006-06-21 13:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you let that person know you aren't into them that way, I don't see any problem with it. But if you are leading them on then yes there is a problem.
2006-06-21 13:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by vgibson81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋