2006-06-21 12:35:47 · 25 answers · asked by Zippy 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, thanks for all the comments so far!
no punching. he likes poking needles in me. I know that sounds really sick.
2006-06-21 13:06:17 · update #1
No, that means you have somewhat of a fetish.
Just make sure you tell him when you feel its getting out of hand.
2006-06-21 12:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by shakia27 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you enjoy a little pain during intimacy it doesn't mean that you have lost all self esteem. However, search yourself and see why if you only enjoy it somewhat, why are you allowing him to continue it. If you both enjoy it great, but if it is just for his benefit make him stop.
2006-06-21 12:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Antea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it just means that you somewhat enjoy pain with your pleasure. As long as you are comfortable with it then it is fine. If you are letting him do it and you don't want to be a part of it, then it could be a self esteem issue.
2006-06-21 12:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doubting the type of pleasure you are getting and the part you are playing, then you need to stop and think about what you want and what you like. It will only feel natural if that is really what you want. Self-esteem is having the knowledge to know what you like and don't give a damn about who knows it.
2006-06-21 12:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by willyo2340 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a freak and its only going to get worst. Has he tried to choke you when having intercourse? If not, it will happen. He is not normal. Why do you want a relationship with someone that is not normal and he is only going to inflict more pain on you. I hope he doesn't kill you. Sad.
2016-05-20 09:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really enjoy it and he's not overdoing it to the point of abuse, I think it's fine. However, is he willing to have you inflict pain on him? If he's not, I'd call that a double standard and he might have issues with being overly dominant.
2006-06-21 12:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.... I love to get rough during sex. I like to be receive and cause physical pain. But the real question isn't wether or not it's "right"... its wether or not its a consensual enjoyment. If he's doing it, and you don't like it, then it needs to stop Now. But if it's something you both enjoy.. Then have fun!
2006-06-21 12:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ailsa on Eredar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how the rest of your relationship is. Do you feel confident in sharing how you feel and what you think with him? Do you love yourself, or appreciate yourself? That "somewhat" aspect of you doesn't necessarily make it so that you have low self esteem!
2006-06-21 12:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mira Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is lots being left unsaid in your question.
I once had a girlfriend who thought she enjoyed the "rough stuff" until we became intimate, then she realized that she enjoyed "normal" sex better. She was in a very long term relationship before i met her, in which her partner only enjoyed rough sex, so she "adapted."
If you are simply "adapting" to keep your partner happy, you may want to talk to him about this, or re-examine your sexual compatibility.
Good Luck!
2006-06-21 12:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by PI Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all...first off it doesn' have any thing to do with self esteem as far as u're ok with it...if you like to be sub that's what u like that doesn't necessarily mean somethingz wrong with it...i enjoy the same thing and i realy enjoy that and we're so happy being together and he respects me alot....enjoy that and goodluck
2006-06-21 12:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by l0_o_some1else_o_0l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it just means that your pain receptors are connected to your pleasure sensors a little more than most people its perfectly ok
2006-06-21 15:44:32 · answer #11 · answered by cowboylogic26282 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋