can gay long distance relationships last?

Question

we are 2 guys we met online we're from the same state only 2and a half hrs apart, we get along pretty good but he has a couple of gay friends that he's friends with one more that with the other because the other one is in the service, i get suspicious when he calls me to tell me that he's going to go to this gay friends house and that he's going to have dinner with him and drink and if he cant drive home from drinking that he'll spend the night i told him from the beggining that i didnt want someone that was going to be running around on me because i been hurt in the past, he still didnt get it convinced me that he wasnt that way that he was nice and was looking for the same in a relationship honesty and trust but how can i trust him when he does that every weekend, and he dont want me to say anything otherwise he get mad, i wanted to end it as soon as i found out because he likes the bar scene, the gay scene and he kept it from me and told me after we went out

Answer 1

A note to the people above who rudely addressed the asker (especially the one who told him that he would burn in hell) : If you are religious, consider this: You are not God, and in the Bible it even says "Do not judge, or you shall be judged". So you, yourself have sinned for judging a gay man. Secondly, we are to love all our brothers and sistahs, and calling them a *****, straight or not, is completely wrong.

To the asker: Why don't you offer to drive him home from parties when he is drunk? You should hang out with him on the weekends and go to some of these parties with him (only some since you don't want to be clingy)

God bless~

Love always / Amor Siempre

~Travieza
You sound like a great, fun guy so don't worry about the mean people in this world, if you tried to talk to me I wouldn't be mean to you jus cause you are gay :)

Answer 2

well long distance relationships can work, but it takes a lot of hard work by both parties. However trust is normally the foundation of a relationship, so if you can not regain the trust then the likely hood of this working out is not very good.

I would suggest talking with your boyfriend and seeing what his expectations are, and then see if a compromise can be reached that makes you both happy.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Male27_Kentucky and BOTYE, I have reported you both for abuse!

It doesn't matter what your sexual orintation is, long distance relationships are very hard. It sounds to me like your relationship is very young and you don't trust him because of that. Just because he is hanging out with his friends doesn't mean he is cheating. However, if you can't trust him for whatever reason, the relationship is doomed from the start. Talk to him about this and tell him that you wish it was you spending time with him. If you two can't talk about your issues, it won't work.

Answer 4

I also have a chum who's right into an prolonged distance relationship. HE stay in toronto and his bf lives in B.C west coast some place and that they been in one for 9 years and it look figuring out for them ok. they communicate basically approximately daily on the pc. yet i does not flow into one myself

Answer 5

I am strait, but I need to say, that long distance relationships never work, unless you can trust the person you with 100% good luck !!!

Answer 6

No one cares that you are gay. That has nothing to do with trust. Heterosexual people get suspicious of the same thing.

But, if you don't feel comfortable..with him going to bars and hanging out with other dudes. Then, just give it up.

Answer 7

if you work at it

Answer 8

no