I need some feedback......I'm 16yrs old and I am planning on having sex for the first time in the very near future. I know how to put a condom on and take it off, but I'm kinda confused about when it should be taken off and changed..........
If I ejaculate, and she hasn't had an orgasm yet, should I keep it on until she does, or stop and change it? If we suddenly stopped, wouldn't that ruin the moment? And if we don't, isn't it a little risky to be having sex with the tipof the condom holding sperm?
2006-06-21 12:07:17 · 12 answers · asked by cameyou22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you're 16.. hmmmm you should probably wait for another couple years... but if you're really desperate and both of you are willing and commited and there's no way to stop you from having sex then change the condom right after you ejaculate! it is not just a little risky to still be using a condom with sperm, it is very likely that it will slip off cos your penis will not stay hard for very long after you come. You don't have to stop 'suddenly', you can tell your girl when you are about to come and let her know when you do, she will understand that it's time to stop when that happens. Some suggestions for you if you are really concerned about your girl not having her orgasm yet, you can try fingering her or kissing, wait for a while until your penis becomes hard again and use a NEW condom and do it again. Actually you know what, if it's your first time having sex then I think it's important for you both to talk about the experience right after, pillow talks surely get people closer, communicatoin is a very important part of sex.
Good luck!!!
p.s have to say this one more time, make sure both of you are ready and have talked over it and are willing!!! if possible wait for a couple more years!!!!
2006-06-21 12:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by fabbitypo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to promote sex at such a young age (although it is good you are using protection, make sure she does also) but if you buy condoms from a store there is a little pamplet inside the box that tells you everything you need to know, you can also go to your local health department and ask someone there, they will tell you with no questions asked. Also if you dont want to do either of these you can visit the manufactures website and they also provide the information there. I reccomend waiting a few more years before you become sexually active.
2006-06-21 12:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by Little Flower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER continue intercourse with sperm in the condom. u may end up ruining the moment, but u can always get back. The condom could rip and you could get the girl pregnant. And I don't think you want that. If you want to keep going after you ejaculate, change the condom.
2006-06-21 12:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by futbolluver09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad that you are going to use a condom. You are right that it is risky to keep using it after you have finished. Most women don't climax through intercourse anyway. Ask her how she wants to end and go from there. Be careful and don't have sex unless you are sure both of you want to.
2006-06-21 12:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'd ejaculate, you probably won't make any further - be aware that a condom can slip off quickly and (then) leak, so take action.
And if your dick isn't hard any more, take the condom off and use a new one when it's hard again. The risk of slipping off is too big otherwise.
2006-06-21 12:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will no cause there is no air in the condom to brust. So,you could be able to make her have an orgasm without stopping. Just be carefull how you put on the condom.
2006-06-21 12:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by dlbaca7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is risky so you would have to change it because if you soften it could fall off inside of her and spill the sperm inside and get her pregnant
2006-06-21 16:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by cowboylogic26282 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this question should be, or should've been, asked in your Sex Education Class!
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/
2006-06-21 12:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just stay a virgin till ur married, and not start with this protected sex, no sex is better.
2006-06-21 12:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, I think you should wait! Just a little longer.
2006-06-21 12:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋