i just got some indirect notice from my friends that they don't want me anymore,,,,,,,i and my boyfriend are not 2gether anymore,,,somebody help me,,,,,(girl4goodmsn.com)
2006-06-21 11:41:21 · 16 answers · asked by butty_betty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not need people to make you happy and I know that you think this might sound crazy but all you need is God. God will be you friend and he will love you far more than any man will. You are beautiful and smart so brush yourself off and keep going. Please do not let people get you down because people are forever changing. Put you trust in God and he will take care of you. Just believe in him and pray that he will mend you broken heart.
2006-06-21 11:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Disha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you don't have anyone to talk to anymore? MMm why don't your friends want to be around you anymore? You need to stop and think about a few things in life.. Sometimes breaking off everything and everyone to start a new life is good... Maybe you needed this time out period to learn yourself and what direction you want to go in life.. Following some things you wanted to do in life and live life to the fullest, no one can stop you but yourself, life is too short to sit at home stressin over something you can't change.. cut your hair.. suck in some air and do the damn thang...
2006-06-21 18:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i am feeling for you right now. I went through this same thing, although i didn't lose all my friends i did lose the friends that meant the most to me because i fucked up alot. I was hurt so bad that i didn't know what to do and i had broken up with my boyfriend three months before so i didn't have him. All i had was my mom and those other people that hung out with but it was never the same. I still wish i could be friends with them again considering it was my cousin and the friends i had done everything with everyday and it was hard to switch to hanging out with other people everyday. Obviously i learned that i don't want to be friends with people that don't want to be friends with me. It is hard but that is something you should think about. Find new friends and a new boyfriend that will be you friend and love you for who you are and not for what you have done, or cool enough, or because you aren't what they want you to be. just be yourself
2006-06-21 18:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by peace.love420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some good self-help books and get studying. Are your friends and ex-boyfriend just plain nasty or do you need to look at your own personality and make changes?
A bit of DIY therapy might be able to provide answers so that you can start building new relationships. Failing that, maxing out your credit card is always fun.
2006-06-21 19:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some more new friend that won't do that to you. Forget the boy that you were with, there are other fish in the sea. But, be careful, don't just throw yourself at anybody cause your vulnerable. Move on and have some fun when you do. don't let it get to you.
2006-06-21 18:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by dlbaca7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe those friends were not really your friends at all whatever the case it will be hard but move on. Trust God and ask that he brings real and true people into your life.
2006-06-21 18:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmie05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is hard for you right now but use this time to do some soul searching. Surround yourself with the love and support of your family. Use this time to bond with your siblings. Do you have a sister? why not do stuff with her instead.
2006-06-21 18:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to search the areas you could improve on in your own life and yes Trust God, find a great upbeat church with a singles group or not. Usually a non-denominational church is uplifting and fun.
Also, in time it will get better. It might not feel like it right now, but i have been through it after 10 years....and 4 years later he hardly think of him. But, in the mean time, find a church with small groups and lock into one of them. These people will be your small group of friends and confidants that will encourage and pray with you. Find friends that uplift you not drag you down. THat pray with you and speak blessings over you.
2014-05-07 19:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some new friends and poison the old ones. Isn't this common knowledge?
2006-06-21 18:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friends are only there when things are good but when you really need them then they are nowhere to be seen. I hope you learn to stand for yourself when things are good or bad.
2006-06-22 04:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋