When a guy ask u out wats the best way to say no.
2006-06-21 11:37:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO
2006-06-21 11:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing worse than working up the courage to ask a girl out and then getting shot down. There is no good way to do it, all I can suggest is that you make it quick and painless.
Some classics.
"No."
"Sorry, No."
"Sorry, I have a boyfriend."
"Thanks, but I'm not interested."
"I'm sorry, but I like someone else."
"No. You're not my type."
The one thing these all have in common is that they're quick and unambiguous. This is more important that doing it gently.
No matter what you say, it is going to hurt, so the sooner the embarrassing experience is over, the better for both parties.
2006-06-21 11:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he worked up the nerve to ask u so just work up the nerve to say im really sorry but i dont like u that way or id feel more comfortable if we were just friends
2006-06-21 11:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by blank_check 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and tell him that you're not interested. It's best to be honest from the get go and not lead him on.
2006-06-21 11:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, ina polite yet frank manner, NO.Cuz some guys won't get the message otherwise."Sorry, I just don't feel the same way about you." is also good.
2006-06-28 04:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by poisonpassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of your answer like you're pulling off a bandaid, trying to be gentle only makes it worse; just tell him, straight up, "No, I'm sorry, I don't want to." Don't whitewash it, don't come up with any excuses, because no matter what you say, it'll come out sounding wrong.
2006-06-21 11:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him, and stop calling him. There really is no best way to say no. And some times it's a mistake to say no. So be sure it's really a right decision, before you even consider saying no. Consider his feeilngs, too.
2006-06-21 11:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um that's a hard one, but saying "no thank you" is a very nice and polite. However saying, I am not interested or you are not my type gives more detail then just saying no.
2006-06-21 11:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straightforward and honest. Just say "Thank you for asking, but no, I'm not interested."
Anything else is immature and could cause other problems... and this way you only have to do it once, and he'll get the picture and you BOTH can move on.
2006-06-21 11:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just say, I'm very flattered but I don't want a relationship with anyone right now.
2006-06-21 11:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A slap in the face and a knee in the balls. Actually, it just depends on your situation. If I had more info I could give you better advice. .-.
2006-06-21 11:40:47 · answer #11 · answered by Domino 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋