2006-06-21 11:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dunno bout the mum... But If I were a dad Iwould want you to be yourself the person making son happy... And would not mind you too kissing etc. or the short skirt which I would expect on a teenager. Its nastiness I would not like or you being on crack or out for money etc...
As long as you were not serious trouble, or using him for cash or a junkie id be cool. inc if a goth etc.
but then Im not a mum
2006-06-21 11:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Joey 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I personally DREADED meeting "the parents" of my boyfriends in the past-it was always the most nervewracking, as you are literally stepping on egg shells,, and obviousley you want to make a good impression the first time they meet you! (unfortuantely i dont think i did such a good impression on a few people!!!) *grin*
I think that one of the best things to be is to be honest and to grin like mad-and be happy in yourself. After all your bf's mum or dad, is an individual, like yourself, and just wants the best for their son. I would be very curious about my son or daughters partner aswell!
So.. my overall advice is to put yourself into their shoes-and be honest, open and laugh at their jokes (no matter how ridiculous ;) )
xx
2006-06-21 13:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, never get anyone to like you,BIG MISTAKE. I suggest you be yourself and don't by any means try to make her like you.
it's always a joy if she likes you genuinely for you being you. Being yourself is so easy and priceless and believe me a lot of good , honest and genuine people out there will always love you for being yourself. be proud of yourself and you will gain more respect for it.
remember if you end up getting married to your present boyfriend, you will not live the rest of your life trying to get his mum to like you.
2006-06-21 11:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by oceantwins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a mum! My son is 17 and when he brings girls home, As long as they are polite and respectful, that is good enough for me!!...Please remember...When you walk out of the room...Dont let her hear you swearing!!! It wont do you any favours!!! Oh, And not too much make-up!!..Oh and make sure your skirt is not too short!!!...Only kidding!! Relax!!
2006-06-21 11:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by danjoelucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers - never mention or allude to the fact that you sleep with her son. Also always say great things about him even if she says the odd negative thing - she is just testing you.
Be polite and call her Mrs xxx until she allows you to use her first name.
2006-06-21 11:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by murft66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the mum
2006-06-21 11:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by mumoftheyear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try ,she will like you more.be yourself ,and have the attitude if your not liked ,balls to them!!
for most mums ,no women is good enough!!!
good luck!!!!!!
2006-06-21 11:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by shoopy213@yahoo.co.uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember to always say please and thank u,and act like a proper young lady even if your not. First impressions mean everything!
2006-06-21 11:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by elisa21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to be something your not!....be polite,respectful and show that you still use your manners! sometimes less is more....(and i dont mean your skirt length) ,dont waffle on for the sake of it!!!! good luck !!!!
2006-06-21 11:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by notmyfault.marc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
Best of luck!
2006-06-21 11:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋