I am really confused. I am stuck between 2 guys and I really don't know what 2 do. Guy 1 likes me and I obviously like him, but like only. Nothing else can happen b/c he's my friend and I've tried to make a move, but it blew up in my face. Guy 1 has communication problems... as in he doesn't talk about important stuff very much. And it buggs me b/c I want my man 2 talk 2 me about anything. Guy 2 is really hott and he wants in my pants, and it's okay w/ me, but I sort of want more that to be just his sex toy... if you can help at all, plz write me or answer my Q on here. Thanx a bunch!!!
2006-06-21 11:13:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to go with one of the guys, go with Guy 1. At least he doesn't just want you for your body. You can try o work out all of those other issues. But why do you have to be with one of these two guys anyway? There are tons of men in the world. Don't rush it. Wait for the right man to come along.
2006-06-21 11:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a guys perspective... It sounds like your guy one is the one you really like and want to be with, and that guy 2 is just kind of a distraction. I would just try to get your guy one relaxed, maybe have dinner with him or relax in a park or something. Just take a little more time doing nothing really, and don't make a move on him. Once he's relaxed, just start slowly telling him how you feel about him, and what kind of relationship you want with him. He might be just a little shy and insecure about himself like most of us are, and might just need you to be direct and push the right buttons/ask the right questions. I like my girl giving me a little extra time and attention just talking sometimes so that I know she really cares for me, and I'm just saying your guy might be the same. Definitely don't go for guy 2 if it's just sex... that will last for a couple of months at most and end really bad.
2006-06-21 11:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by dogsarefun5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should take your time with Guy # 1 because he isn't at the get in your pants mode so yall can actually have a alot of fun before you get there it's like going to middle school to prepare for Highschool and he will start talking more once yall get real good. Good Luck!
2006-06-21 11:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Chauncy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them sound crapy(no offense lol).guy 1 obviously is better even though he is just a friend would you rather have a good relationship with a friend who cares or a kind of"we **** im out"kind of relationship with a hot guy who just wants to get in you pants(by the way you should not be okay with him trying to get in you pants and go)trust me guys like that just want to have sex and go at least with guy#1 if you have sex he'll mean it and you could actually have a relationship with him you cant turn guys like that(ones who just want whats in your pants)into relationship men trust me dont you watch sex in the city?!lol just kidding but to me guy #1 sounds more sensable
2006-06-21 11:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhhhh my goodness. How you complicate relationships by so willingly giving sex. I'm sorry, but I don't see that you have a chance with either or with any until you get your head on straight.
Work on relationships that are based upon mutual interests. Sex is a complicator. Guys want it and will say whatever it takes to get it. Women take this as bieng sexy or "desireable" and expect the man to fall in love with them. Fat chance! If all the guy wants from you is your body how do you expect to build a relationship on that?
Settle yourself upon this: either you will change "you" and gain some self-respect and self-value or you will forever be in and out of relationships the rest of your life!
2006-06-21 11:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this situation i would maybe go with 2 because he is hott(lol) but maybe you could talk to him and say i think we should start out slow and then from that we can move on.But for now i think we should just take it slow.And hopefully that works.I know no girl would wanted to be treated as a man s** toy.Thats just wrong.So i hope this works!!
~Best Wishes~
2006-06-21 11:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by Outrageousorange25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for guy 3 or guy 4....anyone but guy 1 or guy 2.
if all u want is a f^ck go for guy 2...but i don't think u want that.
2006-06-21 11:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by dvlndskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT SETTLE FOR BEING ANYONES SEX TOY. AS FOR GUY 1,YOU CAN FIND ALOT OF BOYFRIENDS...BUT A REAL FRIEND ISNT AS EASILY FOUND.
2006-06-21 11:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by TJDAVILLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, i was in a situation like you one time. the answer is that, neither one is right for you.
2006-06-21 11:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do em both at the same time.....
2006-06-21 11:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by slave0fgwar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋