She is a lady doctor,married,has a son of 4.shez 42,am 19.shez very familiar to us,i called her aunty.now i feel sexually attracted towards her,i follow her,she doesnt know bout this,i want to sleep with her,i really want one night with her.i keep thinking about her all day long and how to impress her.i know this is wrong,but please advice how to stop myself from doing this wrong and prevent any strained relationship between these 2 families,i fear if one day i'll forcefully do it.plz advice.
and stop reporting this,i cant access to the advice.
am not a perv.
2006-06-21
11:10:43
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cant u ask once only?
anyways,its just physical,u'll get over when u get some one else,its normal,we really get attracted towards elders of opp sex,it teen age buddy,the most mysterious one.feel her as your aunt,as a mother,u might be suffering from mother fixation and thinking its love!take your time,dont do anything stupid,if by chance she reciprocates,do it,but always remember,THE TWO FAMILIES SHALL NEVER FORGIVE U THEN!
2006-06-21 11:13:06
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answered by hotnparty 3
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Have you sat down to think what qualities in her are attracting you? If you can pin point them out and try to find those qualities in someone closer to your age range it might help. On the other hand, it may just be a sexual phase you're going through ... a need to have sex with someone that you feel is well-experienced in trade. If that's the case ... I would say confronting one of your parents or family members, the one you're closest with, tosee if you can set up an appointment with a psychologist and see what they can do for you. Don't be scared to seek help ... a lot of unwanted events and things happen because we're terrified of seeking help. So, don't be afraid. On a more personal note, you're not the only to be going through something like this. I have a very close friend that felt the same way ... an attraction towards older women simply based on the idea that they are more experienced and know what they're doing. Eventually he grew out of it after finding someone his age that he felt was adequate for him.
2006-06-21 11:18:47
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answered by jezzy0422 1
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Well you are def. a perv if you would ever even consider or fear that you could forcefully have sex with someone. What you need to do is seek some therapy lil' boy before you turn into a rapist someday. By the way if it were consensual you probably don't have much to offer her in the pants department anyway, she is far beyond your sexual mantality. So keep spankin the monkey to internet porn WEIRDO!
2006-06-21 11:16:56
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answered by TootsiePop 3
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I really honestly believe because of your age you should twice about what you are really feeling this sounds like the case of puppy love or infatuation. she is about twice your age and already has a family. you don't want to get involved with someone who has a family and especially someone who is married that is a no no. so to save yourself trouble and heartache please just move on you are 19 years old and in time you will the right person for yourself. There are lots of fishes in the sea. good luck!
2006-06-21 11:18:59
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answered by Anonymous
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It's infatuation. If it was love you wouldn't need to stalk her. You're still young. Go out and meet girls your own age. They'll take your mind off of that old 42 year old. If you feel like you would force yourself onto her, then you need to talk to someone ASAP. Don't let your selfish needs ruin someone else's lives. Talk to a couselor. But seriosly move on and meet other people.
2006-06-21 11:15:01
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answered by meghanw1 4
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Love
2006-06-21 11:13:32
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answered by chairbinder 4
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I think u should meet him first bcoz same thing was happened to me,he proposed me and I said yes but believe me now i regret that I should not say that, bcoz we both were very different,and when I first met him ,the first thing he said to me was, IT DOESN'T MATTER I LIKE U OR NOT BUT I LOVE U,I can't explain how i felt hat moment.Ye sab sirf film mai hota hai not in real life.I would advice u to first meet that guy and if u both understand each other very well than u should go ahead.
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answered by Anonymous
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She's married. I would leave her alone if I was you. I know that is not what you want to hear, but it is the truth. I was in the same boat once. If she is ever divorced you might could pursue her. But as of right now back off.
2006-06-21 11:16:17
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answered by twinklestoes~ 2
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You will never impress an educated woman, least of all one with a degree and is a doctor, unless you learn how to speak and spell properly.
Second, grow up.
2006-06-21 11:14:36
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answered by Quasimodo 7
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You need to go out and find you someone else and if you're having thoughts like that then you seriously need to talk to someone so that you don't act on them
2006-06-21 11:13:04
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answered by Pretty Brown Eyes 4
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