He went away and I texted but didn't get reply. I was a bit angry and I send email expressing my disappointment. We had such wonderful weekend before that. To my shock I receive an email saying he loves me, I'm best thing that happened to him so far in his life but doesn't want to see me anymore! He can't deal with my insecurities. I apologised yet he still ignores me. I'm in shock...love him and wonder why would he hurt me this way? Its been two weeks now...
2006-06-21 10:51:39 · 6 answers · asked by dulci 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sounds emotionally unstable. Maybe hes been hurt really bad in a previous relationship and is scared of getting involved with you in case the same thing happens again?
If I were you Id email him, explaining that you really love him and will do everything in your power never to hurt him. Ask him is he scared? tell him you are too, but you're willing to risk getting hurt to be with him. Tell him that if he doesnt want you to please have the courtesy to tell you so you can move on from him
2006-06-28 02:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is projecting his own insecurities onto you. All you did was express your feelings of disappointment, which instead of understanding, he has callously chosen to not only ignore, but also punish you for. He may well love you in his own way, but believe me, that way will always be about him, what he needs and what he wants. If he really loved you, he wouldn't be punishing you for his shoddy behaviour. I would count yourself lucky that you can get out now, it only gets worse I'm afraid.
2006-06-22 12:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tefi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is evil. He doesn't want you and instead of just being a man and telling you this he plays mind games.
Oh right he loves you but you're just not quite good enough for him and it's all your fault - does this sound like something a man would say to a girl they are in love with.
I know you want to hear me say that he loves you really and that there is a perfectly reasonable excuse for his behaviour but we both know that this wouldn't be true.
Be sad, be angry and then let it go.
xxx
2006-06-21 19:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is in your question. If you have to ask it the answer, for ever and ever, is NO!
You see love is not just a feeling. Most females want so badly to believe in the feeling of love. True love is what is done not what is felt. Sure love makes me feel like I want to do something for my lover.
No, no, a thousand times no. He does not love you or you would already know it. The truth: Guys, play at love to get sex; girls play at sex to get love.
2006-06-21 18:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on ... there are many other men
if he loved you he would stay by your side - he'd try to make things work
go out
have fun
meet guys
2006-06-21 17:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by dvlndskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he dosent love you because if he did then he would deal with your insecurities.
2006-06-21 17:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by crazie_chick007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋