My mother treats me and my children like crap. Meaning put down, never a kind word alway has to belittle us. As for my sister and brother it's totally different, they are treated like a king and queen and their children. My mother is two faced, talk with you then talk about you. Mother is suppose to be a Christian, well she goes to church. Guess the devil can go to church also. How can you respect a person when they treat you so mean? In the Bible it says that we are to honor our father and mother. How can you honor someone that is mean to you. These put downs have been going on for over 50 years. I love my mother, and don't know what it's like to have a mothers love. I believe in my heart that my mother hates me. Why, because she has made statements to me that made me wish I had never been born.
Today she hurt me again. Today I've decided to never have anything to do with her again.
2006-06-21 10:44:52 · 5 answers · asked by luv2so2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Forgot to say my mother twists everything I have to say. She slings my past in my face as if she never had a past herself. My children are adults and she treats them the same way.
2006-06-21 10:59:56 · update #1
My mom is the same way with me and my girls. when my grandma died 3 years ago, she left me he diamond ring, which was my greatgrandmas as well, and my mom tells me I still rings from dead people. 2 years ago i made a dvd movie on the computer a collage of the family EVERYONE. and she accused me of being a theif beuase i borrowed pictures from the closet (with my dads knowlegde) and scaned them. After that incident, i have not spoken to her either. its too much. sometimes you just have to let go. i've tried to fix things, asking her to go to do stuff, and she tells me take someone that cares. i also have 2 other sisters and 1 brother who are BABIED like no other. I HEAR YA!!
2006-06-21 10:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
50 years, you say? Meaning, that you are at least 50, and you have siblings who are not legal adults? That is a bit odd in itself...Now, respecting someone does not come from whether or not they are "nice". However, action can affect this. Now, if I were you, I would suggest sitting down with your mother and talking to her. If you must, take charge, and do not let her interrupt you, or attempt to twist what you say. However, treat her with respect during the conversation, as this will help. Act as though you are equals, as this may help her respect you. I hope that helps.
2006-06-21 17:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Riiken Ultima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,
respect her.
she is still your mother, she is still your blood.
Dnt go hating her if you hate someone its the same as murder.
Dnt hate her but love her.
No one just wakes up in the morning mean, she either had a bad childhood, adulthood, and something else.
Weither she hates you or not, the bible still says respect your mother and father. Thats just wat you got to do.Dnt go leaving her out of your life.
Ive had a lot of things that my mother has hurt me about.
but you got to get ova it and keep living and dreaming.
You think it couldnt of got to me. well it hurt so bad to have your mother map out your future.
Dnt give up hope. ive ALWAYS said that you should show them how its done.
Love her, show her how to love and soon she'll love you.
give it a go...
good luck.
love, Nita
xoxoxo
2006-06-21 18:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Nita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked your mother why she treats you this way? Maybe you should find out before you make a decision like this one.
2006-06-21 17:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by sassyk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, sometimes.
2006-06-21 17:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Little Lolita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋