its driving me crazy. other than being totally in love with my ex who has ended our relationship recently, i really really really miss having sex with her, and her body which is HOT HOT HOT. what can i do to suggest sleeping with her again? any HOT tips?
2006-06-21 10:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, she wont sleep with you again unless it's her idea. Have you ever considered trying to improve the things she left you for...then she may decide to give you another chance and you can havie it all you want. Best wishes
2006-06-21 10:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to get back your ex is https://tr.im/yJuWL
Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.
Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.
She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!
Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!
2016-07-19 17:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go and see her and tell her very calmly and quietly, like a shy whisper that you want her, she drives you crazy and you're mad about her, tell her you want to kiss her all over and make love with her, tell her that you want her close to you and you want to feel with her this amazing thing...Ask her one very last chance, tell her that you'll make this moment perfect.
And keep your promise!
If she refuses, she's nuts, this would make me reconsider my decision!
Although, dunno why she broke up, if she did break up because you made a serious mistake she may not accept.If the only reason was because she realized she didn't love you anymore, maybe she's wrong after all, she still loves you but she thinks that your relationship is not as great as it used to be and it disappoints her.
I think you must truly love her, and you have to show her all your feelings, don't be desperate, be cute in front of her.
2006-06-25 11:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps this is why the relationship ended if you only have one thing on your mind, or only seemed to appreciate her for her "HOT HOT HOT" body...
My advice to you: A relationship is more than sex-sure sex is important in any relationship but it isnt the begin all and the end all...
If the sex is the only thing you miss, you have to ask yourself what you want out of a relationship. If it is just "sex" then this is perhaps why you are no longer together...
2006-06-21 14:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please - you miss her body and miss the sex - dont mind this crap about missing HER or being in love. If that was the case sex would be the last thing on your mind - you'd just be miserable without her - not just her body.
Go get yourself a one night stand love.
And stop convincing yourself you miss her coz you dont - she was obviously just a cracker in the sack!
2006-06-28 04:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he misses having sex with you
2016-03-15 14:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not recommend doing that...if she left you that probably means that she has no urge to be with you in any way. I would recommend take a shower, use Rosie palm and her five friends. Shave your face, put on a lil cologne, iron a GQ shirt & go out and find someone new. Beacause I promise she is not the only good lay out there.
2006-06-21 10:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by smile4tonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/4mL6h
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-22 15:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Go over to her house right now. Knock on her door and when she answers it, look her straight in the eye and say. "I want you". Make no excuse for you being there and make no move to go in until she brings you in. Then seduce her and **** her brains out. Immediately afterward, get up, leave and don't call her.
If she calls you, go over there and do it again. Alternate hot sex with ignoring her. It will make her obsessed with you.
2006-06-21 10:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really according to why you broke up! If you broke up on bad terms then I wouldnt push the issue. But if it was a mutual break-up then you might have some positive feed back. If you love her then try to work it out with her, but not for sex but for love. If you just want sex, then she might feel like she is being taken advantage of. DONT make her feel like a tramp!
2006-06-21 10:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by monkey69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...she ended it for a reason, what that reason is I don't know, but unless you seriously blew her mind in bed ( which is unlikely since she dumped you) I doubt there is a whole lot to do now but move on and "relieve" things manually when the pressure builds too much. stay in touch with her...you may catch her in between relationships when she needs a little familiar company to tide her over.
2006-06-21 10:49:24 · answer #11 · answered by tuff742003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋