under 1 condition: No Conflict of Interest, meaning that thou I'll be her man she'll continue stirppin'/keep her job. If you were me, the guy, what would u do? Be cool and accept her condition, or refuse and look for another girl - do u think this conditional relationship is right or not? I like her plus she goes 2 a big University pursing a good career.
2006-06-21 10:23:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it playa! Don't distrub her job, because she gets paid almost $400 to $700 a night! So, leave that sh*t alone!
2006-06-21 10:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by missionman1914 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a hard choice to make,. Guys don't like sharing that is the natural order of things. While she could be a faithful stripper and her job is just that a job that she collects a pay check. I don't think you would ever accept her stripping for someone else. For instant say you both went out to a club and your girl was sort of famous for her dancing. So while y'all are out on the floor dancing and then some fool steps up to y'all and ask her for a lap dance. Are you going to step aside or beat the fool down and get thrown in jail. All this for what. Wait until she stop stripping less drama. In the words of Money Mike ( You can't turn a H** into a lady.)
2006-06-21 10:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by willyo2340 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in love with a stripper just because of the song " I am in love with a stripper"? Strippers rock dude! But it will be hard for you to see her giving me a lap dance though. If you like her that much and doesn't mind her stripping then it should be fine. The conditional relationship thing will be harder for you though.
2006-06-21 10:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool and accept her condition AND look for another girl.
If she gets to keep pushin her stuff all up in other guys faces you should be able to keep your options open too. It's only fair. Don't tell her that though, she would take it the wrong way.
2006-06-21 10:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how jealous of a man you are. Could you fall in love and still stand the thought of another man sticking dollars in her undies? If you can keep your cool go for it, but if there is doubt, if that thought makes you want to kick someones butt, then walk away now.
2006-06-21 10:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by smile4tonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask yourself about the conditions are they acceptable to you? Do you think you could have a girlfriend who strips? Sounds like you already really like her. All I can say is TRY IT. You can always break it off right?
2006-06-21 10:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by cc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was one for 3 yrs, i met my bf at the club. i also keept working but it caused to many jealousy issues, sure at first he didnt mind but after he fell in love with me it started to matter. i stopped dancing 2 yrs ago, and honestly it was the best thing i could have ever done. why does she dance? does she need the money that bad, does she go to school, does she have a regular job. if you answered no to all of these then you should realy find out her true colors, because she might just be lazy and is used to making easy $. or she might end up using you. i only did it because im a single mother, and i had a regular job too so i wasnt doing it just because i wanted fancy things, i did it out of necesity. im not saying not to date her but im saying be careful, alot of dancers will not make the best gf's mostly because they are addicted to money, there are a few like myself that can change theyre whole lives around for love. good luck and remember to do your research on this girl b 4 u end up getting hurt. remember anything is possible. and one last thing, if you do end up together dont be like my bf, and acusse her of cheating just cause shes going to work, i staid because i love him but i dont think other girls will put up with it!
2006-06-21 10:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by 2_good_2_be_true;) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you started seeing her while she was a stripper, so I don't think you should be able to tell her to stop. This is what her life was before she met you, so if she is willing to be with you, I think you should let her. You wouldn't want her to try and change you, would you?
2006-06-21 10:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with a few strippers and it's ok for a **** relationship plus you can visit her at work and she can't yell at you for looking at other naked women-free drinks if your really lucky.
But don't expect it to be a normal relationship,and be ready to be jelouse---OFTEN!
2006-06-21 10:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously working her way through school which would explain her wanting to continue the job!! Tolorate it .
2006-06-21 10:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by blueyedfaerydoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋