If you look at my other questions, you will see that my gf had broke up with me and dated several black men. Also, a lot of readers thought I shouldn't get back together with her. I can certainly understand that viewpoint, as I was unsure I wanted to get back with her anyway.
However, there is another issue here. I was at her apartment last night to talk things over and I looked at the pics on her dig. camera when she left the room; she had taken some shots of the guys she had gone out with. If I was intimidated by this before, now I can't get it out of my mind: they were the two largest guys I have ever seen. I was afraid about the whole thing with blacks and now I feel more inadequate than ever- how can a guy have something so large?
And please don't tell me that all blacks aren't built like this: 3 out of 3 seems pretty convincing.
Isn't my size (6 long and 6 around) enough? Or are all blacks packing ten inchers like these guys?
2006-06-21 10:02:39 · 6 answers · asked by louchilelli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it!
2006-06-21 10:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If was all about size she wouldn't be back with you.
I'm only a little bit bigger than you and usually the ex's are calling me back wanting se x, although I wouldn't mind having a 10 incher too, what I got seems to be doing the job just fine.
If you need a confidence booster maybe you should ask her why she wants you back.
2006-06-21 10:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it matter what they are "packing"that`s kinda queer..but I digress I know how you feel. I recently find out my ex is dating again and sometimes I can`t get those thoughts of "is she prettier than me?""does she do it better than I?"etc etc..these thoughts drive me mad, and I know it does 4 you as well..if we were close by, I`d offer you a drink..babe, just get so busy that you don`t have time for this..that`s the best way..I`m trying to do the same.
2006-06-21 10:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by May-May`s mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be intimidated by the other guys sizes. You seem to be packing enough. You just have to worry about your game in bed. If this makes you feel better, not all guys with big thangs can work it to plesure a woman in bed.
2006-06-21 10:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Aisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real problem here is you looking at her private pictures. You had no right. It is your fault those pictures are in your head and it will just take time to forget them. I should know. My daughter's boyfriend was trying to get her back after she dumped him (she found out he was on drugs). He sent her a naked picture of himself. My curiosity got the best of me and when I had a chance I looked. To my shock and dismay, he was sitting naked on MY sofa with a huge erection. You don't think that took a LONG time to get that out of my head? I learned a hard lesson. I hope you did too.
2006-06-21 10:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to compete with black men or else! it's not your issue here. if it was the 'thing' size that matters, then all girls will go out with black men. Get over her and move on.. there are many girls out there who will care just for YOU! believe me
2006-06-21 10:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by cosmicwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋