My boyfriend hasn’t called me in 4 days. After last weekend he has made no effort to call or contact me. Is something wrong? OR is everything ok? I just don’t understand the way boys think. Can anyone interoperate what this could mean? AND no ... this weekend was great between us and we left things on a really good note and that he would call me later. But why hasn’t he called? I mean he is really busy at work I know but to busy to pick up the phone and just say hi? COME ON!! What does this mean? Anyone... OR any ideas of what I should do?
2006-06-21 09:58:02 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
breathe!!!
your over analyzing..we female's do that...
to a guy..."call you later" can mean anything from 24 - 96 hours!!!!
and if he's really busy at work..he's probably tired and maybe a tad stressed out and if you guys are in a good relationship...you are his safe thing right now that he doesn't have to worry about...
so...give him his space..let him work through all this stuff going on at work etc...and he'll get with you as soon as he can...
no over anlayzing.....keep busy...find a project..hang out with girlfriends...don't be high maintenance!!!!!!
(ok..so I went through same thing 2 weeks ago and it drove me insane..but I survived and understood better after we talked about it...)
2006-06-21 10:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by joschaos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till the end of the week. If he does not call you then I would call just to say Hi, Don't get pissed off act like nothings wrong. Sometimes guys get caught up with work. Take it from personal experience sometimes you are tired don't fell like picking up the phone or much of anything. If you said everything was great last weekend then don't think to much. It will be fine. Have a great day......
2006-06-21 17:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine someone not feeling motivated to call for 4 days, hmm, one of my sisters had a b/f that didn't call for a few days, she got really pissed. she was reading the news paper the next week and discover his house had burned down and he died in the fire.she felt like shyt for a while. pick up the phone, call and say are you alive when he says yes , say ok, and hang up. you don't need an excuse to call your b/f. his safety is enuf excuse.
2006-06-21 17:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like any boyfriend I have ever heard. But why are you waiting for him to call you? Call him and ask him whats up! Perhaps he isn't feeling you the way your feeling him.
2006-06-21 17:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is upset about something that has nothing to do with you but doesnt want to sound miserable. Why dont you pick up the phone and speak to him yourself. Love has no barriers.
2006-06-21 17:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some interesting stuff to do on your own and stop hanging around by the phone.
If it's really bothering you that much and he really isYour boyfriend call him and get it over with.
2006-06-21 17:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys aren't like us. they aren't in need of constant reassurace, my boyfriend is always telling me taht he knows i love him and doesn't need to be with me all the time to remember...i know he loves me but it is hard for me to go without any attention..
fours days is a bit long...why haven't you called him if he is your boyfriend? the phone works two ways, if you think something is wrong, call and find out.
2006-06-21 17:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by --Wedded--Bliss-- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him or go by his house to see what is up with him.
2006-06-21 17:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a phone? if you do call him...... i mean that is weird for him not to call i have a friend who her current boyfriend i got them together and i make sure he calls her or she calls him.......
try it, it should work
2006-06-21 17:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by boy-crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, I dunno why he hasn't called you but whatever you do, DON'T call him. wait for him to call you, and when he does don't be like 'I waited forever for you to call, and stuff like that. but if continues to do this, something might be wrong and talk it over with him.
2006-06-21 17:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by Tya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋