whats up with this guy?

Question

I went out with a friend. We met few guys who joined us. I hit it on with one of the guys, went home w/him and had sex. My first one night stand ever!I am 26. I gave him my # but didnt expect him to call. He did - right the next day. We went for a date – ate at an American dinner because everything more decent was closed. It seemed like we didnt want to separate yet, went for milkshakes and played jut box. We kissed good- night. Next date: We went to an independent movie festival,both hated the movie and had lots of laugh making fun of it. = we got similar sense of humor. He held my hand in the movie! Freaky and sweet! We talked, went to eat pies after midnight, had sex, I slept over, had sex. lots of hugging in the bed in the morning..After this- Nothing. Few phone calls saying he is busy. He canceled a date. I let him be. I sent him a message after a month! He called right back.Is he just playing? Hes a nerdy intellectual nurse. I like him. I don’t want to be play around tho. Opinion

The last time I saw him he gave me his book. I was supposed to return it. I am not the type who keeps calling and bugging. If the guy does not show enough interest, I dont need to bother. But he is just a puzzle. If he did not call back, I would not have it on my mind. But seriously i find him very interesting. And i thought we got along well. We have similar interests, similar humor, taste in art, etc... I know he is busy, but still... I dont know what to make out of him.

Answer 1

It seems that all he wanted was sex, which it seems you both enjoyed.
But as far as having a relationship with him, it seems to me, a non starter.
What was he doing for a month, sleeping and hugging some other lady, who has since left?
Who knows, but I think you should just move on, and give up on him. Just write it off, as a fun time, and forget it.

Answer 2

he lookes like he is playing let him be and stop calling hem

Answer 3

youneed to talk to him aboutit and tellhim how you feel.

Answer 4

he got laid