i m a 20 yr old gal and i have very small breast. i do wear padded bras that makes me look pretty ok.also i m going around with my bf from past 3 yrs. previously he didnt like my boobs(i think) but eventualy he is fine with it .now we are getting marry in dec. this yr .i know tht he loves me for who i m but still,as generally men have flair for large boobs i feel very insecure and bad. i also dnt wnt to go through surgery.but want to give him every thing that he has ever dreamt of ,after we get marry.What should i do?..PLS HELP...!!!
2006-06-21 09:28:39 · 17 answers · asked by jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen the best thing you can give him is yourself as you are with no change. and oh yeah toss the padded booby enhancer and be proud to be the perfect you that you are.
2006-06-21 09:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
OK... first off I guess let me clarify that I am not a breast man. Its all about the hips and legs here, but let me say from this mans point of view,..... never, ever change or alter your appearance for the affection or love or even friendship of someone else. If you two love each other then you love each other for who you are, who you fell in love with, and I am kinda disturbed with the fact that he had a problem with your boobs at first and now he's fine with it... how would he of liked it if you had a problem with his penis size or even better, what if you hated the fact he had two testicles, would he be willing to consider surgery to please you! The biggest problem with or society today is know one is happy with who they are, we are looking for quick cosmetic ways to make ourselves someone were not..... damn, it would be so simple if we were all just animals....
****, where did all that come from! Sorry about the ramblings, I just hate to hear of a beautiful young woman not happy with her self and willing to make life, yes life , threatening changes over a man!
But hey... on the other hand, it's your body, you do with it what you will :)
2006-06-21 16:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by xxx SiT On My North Pole xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Implants would be a quick fix, but, you would have to go through surgery. Some women's breast have enlarged naturally after they have become pregnant, which is a real turn on for the husband. But, most of the time, they go away as the baby get older. You are right though, he is marrying you for who you are and not for your breasts. Good Luck on you upcoming marriage.
2006-06-21 16:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inside, your concerned about what he thinks, Right, Well on the outside your concerned about what you think. So take a break and think a little. If he didn't like your boobs, do you think he would have married you....... So stop trying to give yourself a hard time and get married. Theres nothing to worry about, Your fiance loves you for who you are not your breasts.
2006-06-21 16:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by #1-Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your breast size is not the source of your insecurity. Many men like small breasted women. I'm sure he wants you just the way you are. Don't ever enlarge them because you think HE wants them. You have to do it for you, and only you, if you do!
2006-06-21 16:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the man you plan to spend the rest of your life with, than in retrospect, this is a fairly easy discussion for the two of you to have.
Trust me, As your marriage goes on, you will face MUCH bigger issues that you will BOTH need to communicate through. You might as well get some practice now and talk to him about this one.... .
2006-06-21 16:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by DQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey. If he says he loves you for who you are, then leave it at that. He asked you to marry him - small boobs and all :-) He loves you for you. Men like confidence in women. Just be confident in who you are. Love yourself. Never change anything about your body for someone else. It just sounds like you need to build yourself up. Men also like sports cars. Will you buy him one to please him. Love you baby. He does. When the breast start sagging in your old age all you're left with is you. So be you and be confident in your own skin.
2006-06-21 16:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Gods Child fo Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to India for getting your breast implant surgery.Cosmetic Surgery (including facelift/ breast enhancement tummy tuck./lipo) is very cheap in India.There is one company that is very famous in India that arranges cosmetic surgery for foreigners in India.They are called the Forerunners Healthcare.I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories.I have also read that they arrange financing for international patients as cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance in USA or by the stinking NHS in UK
They also have photos pasted of their International patients.You can checkout their website.The cost savings are incredible.As a doctor i personally believe that your surgery can be easily handled in India as the quality of healthcare available here is simply best in the world.The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star .
My cousin got her cosmetic surgery for breast implant surgery and she is more than very happy with the results.SHe is all praise for this forerunners healthcare companyfor the services they provided her.She paid just 30% of the cost what she was quoted in USA and it was like a wonderful vacation for her.Excellent stay,food, best surgeons-she just couldnt stop talking.hope this helps.I think she paid only 4000$ for the breast implant surgery for which she was quoted 9000 $ in USA.
http://www.forerunnershealthcare.com
2006-06-23 04:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy do like big breast, but that is not everything. when we are having sex, it is best to mess with our head. meaning the role play or something. so just maybe dress in a nurse out fit, and just have a wild night. small breast is find. have confident
2006-06-21 16:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you then you dont have to worry about the whole boob thing. everygirl thinks there is something wrong with them from boobs to feet. i think mine are too big and wish they were smaller. everytime i get with a guy thats all they like me for. they dont try to get to know the real me. be thankful you have someone that loves you for you. i am still trying to find someone.
2006-06-21 16:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋